Social Chastity

Forced male chastity has its origin in Victorian times when it was believed that male masturbation and the spilling of seed contributed to feeble mindedness and other mental disorders. To help prevent this, male chastity devices were invented and widely used in mental asylums and on pubescent boys. As we know, the modern incarnation of this practice has nothing at all to with preventing mental illness. Instead, it is a form of sexual control imposed on the male. This practice is fairly recent. While some people have probably done it since Victorian times, its popularity can be traced back to the 1970’s and the sexual revolution. But even then there were relatively few kinksters who practiced it. The devices were belts that restricted movement, could be massively uncomfortable, and were very expensive. The invention of the chastity tube and cage brought this hobby to the masses.

Forced male chastity has the potential to open some new doors in social activities. For people in committed relationships, close opposite sex friendships have always been difficult. The inevitable sexual tension always raised the specter of an affair or the appearance of one. Women not in a relationship with a given male, have always had to be careful about “turning him on” since that could result in his arousal and sexually aggressive behavior. I’m not saying that a male friend turns into a rapist if he gets an erection; nothing of the kind. What can happen is that his arousal will trigger arousal in the female and they may do something they will regret later.

Most likely, if allowed to happen, sex would not result. People do have self control. But both men and women are conditioned to avoid situations where socially unacceptable sex could happen. Forced male chastity may offer more latitude in male/female contact. Since, as a caged male, I have no possibility of unauthorized sex involving my penis, social interactions that have strong sexual content are no more dangerous than shaking hands.

Ok, I am very sure my lioness would not approve of me supplying female friends with oral orgasms or masturbation. That would be too much, perhaps. But, given that I am unable to have sex with anyone or masturbate, it might be possible that a friend could spank me or tease me without threatening our fidelity. I’m not saying that I have any friends who are just waiting for a chance to get me naked and swat my butt, but the point is that when both partners know for sure that sex is not possible, other things that could have led to sex become potentially available between non-sexual friends.

Of course, in the lion world, no one gets near the lion unless recruited by the lioness. So, I have absolutely no license to roam around looking for extra-curricular spanking and teasing. But in the wider scope of forced male chastity, there are now new, safe avenues for more sexual contact between friends who are outside of a committed relationship. I am sure that some new sexual revolution will occur for caged males and their keyholders, but it is something to consider. What do you think? This isn’t grandma’s puritan world anymore.

Caged male half of a happy couple practicing enforced male chastity and domestic discipline. Locked since 1/2014. Domestic discipline 3/2015. Lion's first mouth soaping was 7/17.

Posted in Lion's Journal, Living with chastity, Sex

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