Because My Cock Is Locked Up In A Little Cage

penis in chastity cage

How can a little cage only 1 3/4-inches long and 1 1/4-inches in diameter change my life?

I think that such a small thing, my cage, can have such a profound effect on so many seemingly-unrelated things. Prior to asking for long term lockup, I read endless accounts of caged males instantly turning into body servants for their keyholders. After over three months, that has not happened to me. I’m glad. It’s just not my character. I also read about instant obedience and subservience. Nope, not this lion. For a while I was thinking that being caged didn’t change me at all. Since lioness doesn’t make me wait much for orgasms, maybe it was the lack of utter frustration that forestalled my metamorphosis. Maybe being satisfied prevented the changes. Or, more likely, maybe I’m not the person that would change in this way.

I’m pretty sure that having one’s penis locked up carries no guarantee that the person it’s attached to will become the simpering servant we read about. There is no doubt that some males do become this way, but I am certain the cage didn’t do it. They wanted to be that way the entire time and used being caged as a reason to let that part of themselves out.

There is a change in my case. It’s far more subtle than turning into a sissy maid. My cage forced me to communicate about my sexual relationship with Mrs. Lion. Like many long-married couples, we had fallen into a life of routine. Sex, if we discussed it at all, was an uncomfortable subject for me. I always felt I was asking for something without giving anything in return. As a result, my requests grew fewer, and my masturbation more frequent. Not that I am a chronic masturbator; at most I would jerk off a couple of times a week. Many times it felt really good. I was feeling a heavy dose of guilt when Mrs. Lion pleasured me without reciprocation.

So here I am, locked in a cage that prevents me from masturbating, or for that matter, getting an erection. Lioness has to take action for me to get any sexual activity at all. When I was first locked up, I waited. I didn’t have to wait long. About twice a week I was unlocked and masturbated. The guilt remained. I had started this blog and began writing about some of this. My keyholder, lioness began to contribute too.

Her contributions were eye-openers. I learned that she really enjoyed getting me off. I learned that her libido had waned and she just didn’t get aroused much. I wondered if that was because I no longer turned her on. Actually, I didn’t, but she made it clear that it wasn’t me. Thanks to the cage, this blog, and the wonderful people who write here, we opened a channel of communication that was firmly closed in the past. Better yet, we started to talk. We’ve shared emails with intimate thoughts and feelings. We’re communicating!

Has this magically cured everything that has troubled us? No. Life doesn’t work like that. What has happened is that we aren’t keeping all this bottled up inside. That’s a very good thing. It’s a new start. All because my cock is locked up in a little cage.

 

 

 

 

Caged male half of a happy couple practicing enforced male chastity and domestic discipline. Locked since 1/2014. Domestic discipline 3/2015. Lion’s first mouth soaping was 7/17.

4 comments on “Because My Cock Is Locked Up In A Little Cage
  1. dtempe says:

    I am just curious. My wife and I are discussing cuckold and chastity and the pic of the cage in your “Because My Cock Is Locked Up In A Little Cage” article looks simple and secure. Do you know who sells this device and measurements?

    Excited to be in chastity.

    • Caged Lion says:

      Actually, my cage is smaller now. My new cage is only 1 1/4″ long. The old one was 1 3/4″ long. it is a Jail Bird cage from Mature Metal. These are custom made and you can get whatever measurements work best for you. See our Getting a Good Fit page for advice on measuring.

  2. dtempe says:

    Sorry to be a nuisance, but do you generally wear physical lock? The locks seem clunky, and your pic seems to have some sort of other security harness. Can you briefly explain?

    • Caged Lion says:

      My cage is secured by a security screw. This is a screw with a special head that only a matching tool can remove. Many people prefer the padlock. I like the screw since it doesn’t take up more space and holds the cage rigid.

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