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Last week, I had a fixed orgasm day. It was part of Mrs. Lion’s ongoing experimentation in forced male chastity. On Sunday I got my scheduled orgasm. It was amazing! Like Mrs. Lion, I am trying to figure out if I respond differently to fixed orgasm dates and not knowing when my next orgasm will come. I don’t think anticipating Sunday had much effect on me, though I did like knowing we were going to play.I really looked forward to that. In fact, planned play dates really work for me.

I think that Mrs. Lion is going to go back to no fixed orgasm date and plans to use the, “You can wait another day (week, month), can’t you, dear?” method of raising the stakes. This is especially challenging for me if she is edging me at the time. She wants to see how that method will work for us. I wonder what she will do if I say I just can’t wait another… I bet she will laugh.

Another possibility is to force me to wait until I am truly desperate and then do the “Can’t you wait, dear?” Of course that will drastically reduce the number of orgasms I get.  I’m not sure Mrs. Lion, or I for that matter, will be very happy with that. However, it is a valid and reasonable thing for Mrs. Lion to do.

This is the biggest chastity issue we face. Many of the more interesting activities only occur when my desperation to come is very high. That can take a couple of weeks or more. Mrs. Lion loves to make me come and I am not at all fond of being desperate. It’s ok sometimes, but I prefer less desperate and more satisfied; not that it matters. A mix of both might keep things more interesting. I do hate waiting.

In many cases, caged males want to be challenged by waiting longer and longer. Some want to be prevented from ever having another orgasm. In some cases, the keyholder has some reason of her own to want to minimize or eliminate male orgasms. Neither is true in our case. I think it’s fair to say that we have two different-but-complementary purposes: I want to be sexually controlled and disciplined, and Mrs. Lion likes that my chastity helps to keep her more sexually focused.

I value the benefits we get from our particular brand of forced male chastity. I believe that Mrs. Lion does too. Our challenge is to figure out how to manage my orgasms. It isn’t that we disagree or are unhappy. We just want to figure out what works best for us. What works for you?

 

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In: Anal play

My intention was to peg Lion while I gave him an orgasm. I wanted to make him feel like he was screwing himself. Unfortunately, I love giving him blow jobs. I know I sound like a broken record, but it’s true. I tried to hold his mini weenie in while I sucked him. It kept sliding out. So I jettisoned it and went for the orgasm.

Lion seems pleased with the way the afternoon played out. Actually, he had trouble with the first butt plug so I wasn’t sure he’d be able to take his clone. I was a little lost at that point. My whole game plan consisted of pegging him.

A long time ago, Lion told me there can only be one source of pain during play. In other words, if I have clothes pins on his balls I should not spank him. The body can not process multiple pains at the same time. It didn’t seem right to me. I routinely have pains in multiple body parts and, unfortunately, my body feels each pain. Maybe he meant pleasurable pain. At any rate, for some reason I decided to spank him while the butt plug was in. He liked it. Well, maybe he didn’t like it like it. Mr. weenie liked it. So I kept doing it. And I swatted his balls. He was struggling against his restraints. I told him he was cute thinking he could get away from me.

One thing Lion wanted me to work on was to continue spanking or swatting him after he said it hurt. I’ve been trying to do that. Today he may have regretted asking for that. I may have let up a little bit but I went right back at his buns and balls.

I did notice something today. Maybe it was the position, maybe he was just super excited, but Lion seemed longer today than I remember him ever being. I could not get all of him in my mouth. I told him he was lucky that his clone wasn’t based on the penis from today. And I loved every inch of it.

I haven’t decided if I’ll choose a wait time for him or not. I like being able to take an orgasm whenever I want one. Maybe I’ll try the “you can wait one more day” tactic this time. But we know it’s me who has trouble waiting.

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In: Male Chastity

(Sunday, August 3, 2014) True to her word, Mrs. Lion restrained me in the sling today and went to work. I was extremely horny and was hard as soon as she freed me from my cage. We went down to our basement dungeon and I climbed onto the sling. After she restrained my ankles and wrists, she spent a few moments playing with and sucking my penis. That was followed by anal play where she began with fingers (she got three in and moved them in and out) and then went to a butt plug.

While she had me plugged, she gave me a very thorough spanking using hands, wooden spoons, and a nasty paddle. She also applied the spoon to my balls as well. I was writhing in my restraints trying to get away. My balls stung from the wooden spoon.  She commented that my butt was quite red. It felt hot and sore! Returning to other things, Mrs. Lion got the mini Clone-a-Willie. Before putting that up my ass, she had me suck it, telling me that I was sucking myself. That has always been an ambition, but the silicone one wasn’t very tasty and didn’t feel good. I discovered that I am quite a mouthful. Does this make the Clone-a-Willie an educational toy?

From mouth to asshole; Mrs. Lion put my silicone double in my rear and pegged me a bit. She then tried to hold it in with her body while she sucked me. It kept slipping out. Naughty willie! Finally, she just removed the dildo and concentrated on oral stimulation. It didn’t take long for me to have a huge orgasm. Wow! I asked her if there was much semen. She said she wasn’t sure. It shot down her throat. Now that is good news! Before I was locked up, my ejaculations were virtually nonexistent.  I would orgasm and nothing would come out. A few minutes later, semen would come drooling out. I decided to try kegel exercises to see if the problem was my PC muscle. So, for the last six months at least once a day I do kegel exercises. I think the exercises are why I was able to shoot semen into Mrs. Lion’s throat. I also think that her multi-media playtime got me super excited. Between the better muscle strength and the amazing stimulation, I squirted like a thirty year old.

I didn’t think that I was that interested in the anal stimulation. As I lay in the sling I hoped that portion of the program wouldn’t last too long. It was uncomfortable, but obviously it was arousing as hell. Clearly, my body loves that anal action. Uncomfortable or not, I hope we do a lot more. Mrs. Lion put together a program that brought me to a new height of arousal. I stayed hard for ten minutes after my orgasm. This was truly a Sunday afternoon to remember.

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Last night, as part of his anal training, I decided to use Lion’s Clone-A-Willie double. It was our first attempt at molding his weenie and, as you may recall, it created a perfect likeness of his not-quite fully erect penis. We have not made a second attempt yet. However, I thought it would be a good way to restart his training.

Earlier in the day I put the clone on his nightstand. I knew he saw it but made no mention of it. When we were about to use it, though, he said looking at it made him feel inadequate. I told him it looked exactly like his teenie weenie (not his fully confident weenie) and to prove it I put it in my mouth. Yuck! The real thing tastes much better. Foul taste notwithstanding, and despite the fact that Lion has softer skin than the silicone dildo portrays, it was just like having him in my mouth. That was very cool to me. I did not make Lion put it in his mouth although that is a possibility at some point in the future.

I knew he would be able to handle it. I’ve shoved much thicker things in there. I was more interested in how he would feel knowing that it was his cock penetrating him. I let him get used to it for about ten minutes before I started pegging him. Since we haven’t done much anal play lately I didn’t want to make him too sore so this session was fairly short. He said it felt ok. If he is anything like me, ok means it’s fine because he can stand it for as long as it takes. If I had done it too long I’m sure he would not have been ok. He said it was interesting to feel the texture of his cock inside him. Most of the dildos we use are smooth. His clone has his veins and the nature of the do-it-yourself kit leaves more of a rough surface.

When I was done pegging him I edged him a few times. Eventually he produced some pre-cum. I love the taste of him so I started licking him and then that led to sucking him. I had to force myself to stop. If I didn’t I would have had to make him come. He said he could have lived with it. What a guy! Always willing to have an extra orgasm to please me. No, my Lion will be getting his sanctioned orgasm today as promised. He’ll be in his sling, subjected to some more anal training. He might even have his orgasm while I peg him with his likeness. If I can get the thrusts coordinated, it will truly be like he is screwing himself.