Male Training Basics For Me

Saturday night Mrs. Lion gave me an oral orgasm. It had been only two days since my last orgasm. She also let me go without my cage all night and most of Sunday. She said I was in no danger of masturbating (true) and she did have to remove hair. She noticed I was a bit scruffy in the picture I posted last week. I noticed too when I took that selfie. It was also a chance for me to see how my new underwear feels without a cage. It feels very good. The outline of my penis is very visible inside the pouch. Of course, nothing shows through my jeans. Still, it was nice to see my old friend outlined in my underpants.

My thoughts recently have been around my interest in training and conditioning. I’m not sure where my desire to be conditioned originated, but the idea of my behavior being changed so that I automatically do something I am trained to do seems very hot to me. Just doing something I wouldn’t do on my own and not noticing until it is drawn to my attention is amazing. One reason I like the shock collar so much is its power to invisibly control me is perfect.

This device is different from any other corrective practice I know. The stimulation is instant and ranges from annoying to painful depending on how strong a jolt Mrs. Lion sets it to provide. That’s not the unique part. When the stimulation ends, my body has absolutely no memory of the pain. It’s as though it never happened. Spanking leaves a hot and sore bottom that can last for days. Pinched nipples echo with the pain for some time. But not the shock collar. I get the correction and then it is gone.

There is a very expensive toy, the DreamLover, that takes this electrical correction to entirely new levels. It is loaded with features, some like “canine mode” will apply shocks to the penis if the wearer changes position from being on all fours. It has one feature I think would be good for Mrs. Lion and I: honeymoon mode. It has a powerful micro-vibrator under the head of the penis in that sensitive spot. The keyholder can remotely trigger this to provide pleasurable stimulation. With this addition, she can provide correction and reward. It seems to me that it is the ultimate training device. Unfortunately, at over $1,000 and requiring extensive training for the keyholder, you need both the money and a keyholder who really wants to do behavioral modification. Mrs. Lion isn’t particularly interested in behavioral modification especially if it requires an expensive device and a lot of training to use.

For the rest of us, the modified dog training collar can be nearly as effective without the cost or training. The first question Mrs. Lion asked was,

What do you want me to train you to do?

That kind of misses the point. But it does say that she has no wish list of negative lion behaviors to correct. I’ve been wondering if maybe one very interesting use of this device would be orgasm training. Mrs. Lion likes to edge me. What if when I get very close, she says, “No!” and applies a fairly strong shock? Would it back me off from the orgasm? If it does, would repeating this process for a while, condition me so that just her, “No!” would be enough to stop my orgasm even with stimulation continuing? It would be fun to find out.

Another sticking point with us are the ruined orgasms. I consider them my mistake. She didn’t give me permission to come. She, on the other hand, considers it her fault; she kept stimulating me too long. If it is my problem, then immediately after I stop dripping, she should give me a very strong spanking. Not just four hard swats, but a lot. That might send the message that I had an accident.

I am not sure that Mrs. Lion is all that interested in administering those spankings. I would be happy if she tries the shock method of preventing accidents and teaching me to stop if she says No!. Primary to this is that she considers a ruined orgasm her fault. I believe it is mine. Maybe this is something we can try and see how it works.

Caged male half of a happy couple practicing enforced male chastity and domestic discipline. Locked since 1/2014. Domestic discipline 3/2015. Lion’s first mouth soaping was 7/17.

What do you think?