Month: September 2014 (Page 15)

By bedtime Tuesday, barring any unforeseen circumstances, Lion will be recaged. I’ve decided his next orgasm will be on September 9. He will have the opportunity to earn both rewards and punishments. I will determine if the rewards and punishment change that date. He may earn swats instead of time added, for example.

I have also decided that if he does, in fact, earn an added day, he cannot use a love coupon to nullify it. That would be cheating, my pet. However, I never really addressed using multiple coupons at once. Assuming he has not earned the addition of another day or more, could he use two coupons to move his time up by two days? Or could he move up a day and be allowed to choose the type of orgasm? I think I will decide for each wait time. This time he can use multiple coupons with the exception of not being able to deduct a day if he earns a day as punishment. If I do not give Lion specific rules at the beginning of a wait time then he may use any combination of coupons.

Lion is correct. I will begin anal training again. It made no sense to do it this weekend because he was sick. By next weekend he may be sorry he feels better. With no more trips to get ready for, I’ll have plenty of time to pay attention to him. As he knows, attention is not necessarily a good thing.

(Monday, September 1, 2014)  Now that it is the last day of our vacation I am over the food poisoning I got Friday night at our hotel/RV park. Saturday night I was feeling a lot better, but as I wrote yesterday, mid blow-job I just lost arousal. That worried me. Last night Mrs. Lion tried again, this time with the expected result. I was relieved. I’m not completely over the food poisoning. My energy is lower than usual and I have a dull ache in my stomach.

It’s a good thing that I am wild this weekend. It would have been very difficult dealing with the cage and trips to the bathroom every ten minutes. We are also behind on Mrs. Lion’s goals and my discipline. Out of pity, Mrs. Lion hasn’t redeemed my naughty lion coupon. I still have four hard swats coming. She also hasn’t done any anal training — a good thing with how sore I have been back there. Now that I am better, I expect that both will be handled tonight.

We go home tomorrow. When we get there, one of the first things that will happen is that I go back into my cage. As Mrs. Lion and I have discovered, my cage isn’t really to prevent me from unauthorized masturbation. With or without the cage, now that Mrs. Lion is in charge, I won’t cheat. But we have learned that the cage is a powerful symbol that reminds us both to keep sex in the foreground.

I was curious to see what would happen this long weekend with me running wild. I wondered if things would change because I am am uncaged. Would we go back to our old patterns and ignore sex; or would things continue the same way it did while I was caged? Unfortunately, I got sick and all bets were off.

Our chastity lifestyle clearly takes time to establish. Six months appears to be just the beginning. We are still discovering what works for us and, of course, what doesn’t. There is no right or wrong way to do this. We haven’t begun to try all of the options available to us. Change — real change — is slow. I am beginning to think that it will take us all the way to March 2016 to find out exactly what chastity means to us. That’s when we can decide to quit or go on. Based on our progress to date, I think we will go on forever.

I am happy to report that Lion is back in action. Yesterday he managed to remain vertical for most of the day and he was able to eat whatever he wanted. And, while he had serious concerns about being broken sexually, this is not the case.

Last night I did try something different with him. First I gave him little love taps on his balls and cock. Not surprisingly, his cock sprang to life. Again, I wasn’t taking any chances so I moved into position between his legs. To change things up a bit I only touched him on the upstroke. I think it surprised him a bit. When I did suck him normally and then stopped, he actually whispered, “don’t stop.”  Of course I had to tease him a bit more, but by only touching him on the upstroke I was hoping I wouldn’t push him over the edge too quickly. It worked perfectly.

Afterwards Lion said he was glad he wasn’t broken. He said what happened Saturday night had never happened before and he was afraid something drastic was wrong. I didn’t think he was broken for good. His concern was that he’d be useless without the ability to have an erection. Of course I know men’s erections are a symbol of more than just sex, but Lion would not be useless if Mr. Weenie took a permanent vacation. After all, he’d still have his tongue and his fingers. I’m teasing my Lion. Obviously we are about more than just sex. I’m glad Lion feels better in every capacity.

(Sunday, August 31, 2014) Last night marked my thirteenth day without an orgasm. Mrs. Lion was ready to give me relief. As you may recall, we had an inadvertent ruined orgasm on Thursday night, my assigned night of release. Friday night I was completely incapacitated by food poisoning. Yesterday, we took it easy and stayed home to give me a chance to recover. Last night Mrs. Lion tried again.

She wasn’t taking any chances. She went right to oral stimulation. It felt great. And then it didn’t. Suddenly the excitement stopped and while I was still erect, I just wasn’t feeling the excitement. Mrs. Lion noticed something changed and I told her what happened. I asked her to try with her  hand. She did, but the excitement was gone. It wouldn’t return for the rest of the evening.

Given that it’s been almost two weeks since my last orgasm, this was pretty surprising to me. I’ve been wild since Thursday night. Over that time, other than Friday night and early yesterday, I’ve been enjoying erections now and then. I can understand losing interest if I had been “worked” too often. But that wasn’t the case. I woke up this morning with an erection but with no real desire to orgasm. That’s not surprising. I rarely want to come in the morning. Mrs. Lion is going to try again later today.

Things have been on hold since we got here. Today, with me well recovered I expect that we will resume our normal lives. I still have a “Naughty Lion” coupon that Mrs. Lion gave me on Friday. I didn’t believe her the first time she told me something (her ex did that all the time, I don’t do it usually), so I earned four hard swats, probably with the big, wooden spoon. I hate that. Hard swats can leave marks. In once sense, it’s nice to know that Mrs Lion is using her coupons. I won’t think so later.

I can’t think of any reason that I am permanently broken. I guess we will find out later. In any case, this is the longest wait I have had to date; two full weeks. Thinking back, those ruined orgasms may have made the wait easier. It may be that tease and deny is a much crueler way to make the wait feel longer. I’m sure Mrs. Lion will experiment and I will find out soon enough.