As promised, Mrs. Lion put me in my sling for a play session. She kindly warmed up our playroom, and because she knows I like it, remained fully clothed. Once safely in my restraints, she mixed hand spanking with attention to my cock. Both were really nice. She stopped and said,

So you don’t want to come today?

“Not necessarily.”

“I know it’s not up to you, but I wanted to know what you would like.”

“Right now I wouldn’t mind at all.”

“Good thing! You might be unhappy when you learn when you will get to come again.”

I didn’t say anything else. She proceeded to put increasingly larger objects up my ass. She moved each in and out, giving me a good pegging. Last, she inserted the NJoy butt plug. I barely felt it going in.

“I guess that was easy to take after the other things.”

“Yes, Ma’am.”

The truth is, I had no idea it was a butt plug. It just felt like a dildo that wasn’t too big. She did take some time pegging me with the clone of my penis. It felt good and I told her. She said,

“I like how it feels, too.”

I smiled. She was thinking of the real lion penis inside her.

She also spent time playing with and sucking my cock. She brought me to the edge several times. Then, she took some clothespins that have sandpaper on the gripping surface and put them on my balls. Ouch! She didn’t stop there. She took out the tiny clothespins and put four of them on my cock head (image). Now I remember clearly how much they hurt. This tine I didn’t stay hard after she put them on. I guess I am out of practice.

Next, Mrs. Lion removed the clothespins from my cock and used her mouth to make it feel better and gave me a great orgasm. She said there was a lot of semen. Well, it had been eight days. Tonight I am a happy lion. Next time maybe Mrs. Lion will put more of them on me and I will stay hard. Stay tuned.

lion in his sling
Here is lion in his sling. He will be spending some time there today.

Lion and I discussed my post yesterday. He says I’m weird. I’m weird. Mr. I-want-you-to-lock-my-penis-up says I’m weird. Because I think wearing clothes while I play with him is weird. Yes, I did post that it was weird, but I meant in the sense that it was weird that that was the one thing that I find weird in all the weirdness that we do. I guess we’re both weird.

On the plus side, I think my horny Lion is back. Since we didn’t play yesterday, I edged him last night. Now he says he’s horny. He also says he would prefer not to come today. Hmmm… that may change my plans a bit. Maybe. Of course, I can do whatever I want to him. Part of me wanted to get him all hot and bothered and give him an orgasm. Now part of me wants him to wait because he wants to wait. And, secretly, I had picked a new wait time and wanted to see if he could make it till then. I’m undecided at this point. I probably won’t make up my mind until we’re around the point of no return.

I’m glad he’s horny again. In some respects he’s easier to deal with. I know what he’s looking for. When he’s not horny I’m not sure if playing is what he wants. But today I know he definitely wants to play. After some manscaping that’s exactly where we’re headed.

(Saturday, October 25, 2014) Mrs. Lion wrote in her post yesterday that she prefers being naked while topping me. In the past I’ve expressed that I think it is sexier if she is dressed.  I thought it was a small thing that wouldn’t matter to her. In a traditional BDSM scene, the top is almost always clothed unless getting sexual service from the bottom. Being naked in the presence of clothed people is a powerful symbol of vulnerability. There’s an entire fetish of CFNM (Clothed Female, Naked Male) that features a naked man with one or more clothed women who tease, play, and masturbate him. To me, that is extremely hot.

Does that mean Mrs. Lion should be dressed when we play? Well, yes and no. I like when she is clothed, but it isn’t that important to me. Why? Because we have been together a long time and being naked in her presence doesn’t have that little humiliation it would in front of others. It comes down to what works for both of us. I had no idea that by being naked she felt more connected. That seems a bit weird to me. When we play, very little of her body is involved; mostly her hands and mouth (if I am lucky). So Mrs. Lion prefers NFNM (Naked Female Naked Male) which is the vanilla mode for sex. Based on what she wrote, being naked improves her enjoyment of our play. By all means she should be naked then! It isn’t about what I want, right?

When we play, I don’t see her a great deal of the time. I am either on my knees or stomach facing away from her, or in the sling where I am looking straight up in the air. From a practical point of view, Mrs. Lion can be naked without it being a problem for me. This reminds me of an old friend. She was a dominant and played often. The guys who bottomed to her liked to see her in leather. So, she would dress in tight, sexy leather pants, vest, etc. when they arrived at her place or at a party. She would restrain them and blindfold them. Next, she took off her leathers and put on comfy jeans and a t-shirt. The bottoms never knew the difference. In their minds (and no, I wasn’t her play partner), she was this hot leather-clad dominatrix, but in reality she was comfortably dressed in jeans. If I think about it, the only time that having Mrs. Lion clothed makes a difference is when she edges me or masturbates me with no hope of sex with her. Even then, I am fine if she is bare too. We have a very nice blindfold. Maybe Mrs. Lion will use it.

There is one article of “clothing” that it is helpful for Mrs. Lion to wear at times. That is rubber gloves. I don’t have a rubber fetish. The gloves don’t turn me on. But, when she is working on getting her hand in my ass, the gloves provide a smoother surface. The same is true of dildos. The ones that are smooth without the bumps and veins of a silicone penis are much more comfortable to accept. Try it yourself. It’s surprising how much difference that change in surface makes. Once I get comfortable accepting larger objects, the gloves can certainly come off. I can then also handle more realistic dildos too.

Some time this weekend Mrs. Lion said she will put me in the sling for some penetration and other play. I will ask Mrs. Lion to take some pictures that we can share here. My level of interest has gone way up. I’m getting spontaneous erections again and actually want to come. It’s been a week since my last orgasm. I am ok if I don’t come this weekend. It might be interesting to see how things develop if I have to wait longer.

As you may have read, this weekend Lion will be spending time in his sling. It will probably be in the middle of the day. And I will probably be fully clothed. Lion likes when we play and I am dressed. I find it odd. It may seem strange that of all the things I do to him, I would think this one thing is weird. But I do. I guess I think it’s odd because where sex is involved I assume there will be nudity. Maybe not full nudity. I don’t care if one of us has a shirt on. Socks don’t turn me off.

In a sense it feels like I’m a bystander. I’m not invited to the party. He’s naked and enjoying himself and I am doing something for him, but there’s a disconnect. I can’t explain why I would feel any more involved if I were doing the same thing while naked. It may have something to do with the skin to skin contact being more intimate.

The other thing is the image I have is of a dominatrix clad in a leather bustier, wearing stilettos and a mask, holding a riding crop. To me that looks ridiculous. I would never wear leather or a bustier. I’d break my neck in stilettos. A mask seems silly. The only part that seems reasonable is the riding crop. I can’t see how my jeans and a shirt could possibly be a turn on for Lion. Then again, I can’t see how getting spanked or dominated could be a turn on either.

We don’t often play in the sling so I guess if he wants the added pleasure of my being clothed, then I can do that for him too.