Last night Lion got six hard punishment swats with the rough side of the nasty paddle. He had eaten before I did at breakfast and he dropped his napkin at dinner. This time I told him he had to remain still or I would start again. I’ve never done that before. I gave him four swats and then told him he had two more coming. He took them all like a champ. And they were hard swats.
I inserted a larger butt plug. I think it is the same width as the smaller Njoy plug, but it is about three inches long and weighs quite a bit. He had a little trouble taking it. When I unplugged him about an hour later his buns were still rosy from the punishment swats. That rough paddle really does the trick.
Earlier in the day Lion said he wished he could lick me. I told him he could do it whenever he felt like it, but I didn’t want him to feel like he had to. He said he didn’t want to pressure me. Clearly we have issues in this area. I know he has trouble initiating so it always feels like he is forcing himself to do it. It’s sort of a catch-22. I don’t want to ask and he doesn’t want to pressure me. We have to find common ground.
When I had unplugged him, Lion asked if his front would be getting any attention. I told him I thought that could be arranged. I was thinking about just taking him out and exercising him. I wasn’t planning on edging him. What can I say? I love making him squirm. I edged him two or three times. Then, of course, I sucked him. And I kept playing with him while we snuggled. Then I asked him to lick me. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him move so fast. He gave me two or three orgasms. Forgive me for not being able to count. My mind (or rather the blood to my mind) was elsewhere.
While I did reap the benefits of him licking me, it was more for him than me. What would I do if Lion said I could no longer give him blow jobs? I wouldn’t be a happy person. I know he loves to give me orgasms too. So, I guess our common ground is that I will ask/allow him to do it more often whether I’m technically in the mood or not. I know I’ve said this before. But this time I am committed to it. I will never get back in the mood if I don’t try to prime the pump, so to speak.
Tonight I’ll use the clone dildo on Lion. Then I want to try out my nubby paddle. I know he’s very horny at this point but Mr. Weenie will not make an appearance tonight. He has four days to go and he should be getting grumbly soon. He’ll need to make sure the toddler doesn’t come out or he’ll be waiting longer.