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In: Male Chastity, Sex

Lion already knows when his next orgasm will be. I told him a few days ago when we were discussing his wait times. I thought about changing it, maybe making it longer so we can see if the six day issue is every six days. If he had to wait fourteen days then would day six and twelve be similar? For now I’ve left it at nine days. I can always extend the next wait.

For tonight’s orgasm he has requested that I do more of a buildup to the main event. Oddly enough, he doesn’t share my love of immediately going for gold. I’m being sarcastic. I hate when he does the same thing to me. Usually I do build up slowly, but I didntlast time. It resulted in a meager amount of ejaculate followed by a slow oozing for a while afterwards. Tonight I will pay more attention to him.

Sometimes I like to tease him to the point that I think he will just go out of his mind if I don’t finish him off. Not necessarily edging him. Just getting him so turned on that even if I stopped he’d be in danger of a full orgasm if the wind hit him just right. I bet he won’t be disappointed tonight. I’ve got some nice plans for him. And then he’ll have his nine day wait to look forward to.

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In: Male Chastity

I’ve never believed in male sexual training, until now that is. Since the only male I have sexual experience with is me, my evidence has been sparse. Since we started enforced chastity, I liked the idea that I don’t have any choice about my sexual activities. Of course, you know that. However, I’ve started to notice some things that suggest I am being conditioned. My chastity device, the Mature Metal Jail Bird, is so comfortable that I am rarely aware I have it on. It’s been locking me up for more than ten months with very rare and brief opportunities to to go wild. I can’t get aroused while it is on. So, I’ve gotten used to limited stimulation by Mrs. Lion at times she chooses.

Ok, sounds typical. It is. Here’s the thing; the other night after teasing, Mrs. Lion left me wild for a short time. I went into the bathroom to pee. I sat down on the toilet and did my thing. I stood up and got some toilet paper to clean off the cage. There was no cage! No biggie, you say. Absent-minded lion forgot. I did, but it was more than just forgetting. I realized that I am conditioned to be caged all the time and I am very sure that my ability to respond sexually is now limited to when Mrs. Lion wants me to get aroused. The change isn’t complete. I am sure that if left wild, I probably could masturbate. But would I?

At this point I am pretty sure I wouldn’t. It just doesn’t occur to me anymore. I am very sure that over time (years probably), I will simply never even think of jerking off.  I am surprised to say the least. This sort of conditioning takes time; a lot of it. After ten months in my cage, I am making noticeable changes.

This suggests that with consistent training, it is possible to teach me more difficult tricks. I don’t know how we would do this, but if she wants, Mrs. Lion can train me to orgasm only with her permission. I think this is the most powerful form of training I could get. Do I want it? I would like to try. Will I hate it. Probably. In the same way I like spanking, this could be big fun. On the other hand, Mrs. Lion may have no interest in this particular passtime. That’s ok too.

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In: Male Chastity

I think Lion is back to himself again. He was happier last night and that was even before I took Mr. Weenie out for some exercise. There really may be something to this day 6 phenomenon.

Lion thinks it’s funny that I call his weenie Mr. Weenie. He says he’s heard the term before, of course, but never with a title. I do it because it’s my weenie and my weenie is a VIP, very important penis, so he deserves a title. He is, after all, the center of attention in this chastity business. Will he get to come out tonight? Will he be edged? Will he get to ejaculate? Will he get bitten by the tiny teeth of velcro? Many men think their penis is the center of the universe. In our case, Mr. Weenie is the sun. Everything revolves around the cage and the precious cargo inside.

Now that may be an overstatement, but if there was no cage there would be no chastity. I’m not saying Lion would immediately go back to masturbating however often he did before. But there would be no reason not to. I couldn’t stop him. Whatever other activities we do, the key is that Mr. Weenie is safe in his cage. Or not, as the case may be.

If you think about it, Mr. Weenie could just as easily be called King Weenie. He wears a crown on his head. I know, that’s silly. A step too far perhaps. My point is that whatever I call it, his penis is my favorite toy, and even though I may whack it and otherwise abuse it from time to time, I respect it.

This concept may seem counter-intuitive. If the top is in charge, how can so much importance be placed on a penis? Shouldn’t the top be the most important? Why are we all here, talking about chastity if the penis isn’t important? We can all have different goals, but it all boils down to how much attention that weenie gets. He could be locked up for months without being allowed out. He may get to come out frequently, but never get to have an orgasm. Or, as in Lion’s case, he may get to have somewhat frequent orgasms. (Although I’m sure he doesn’t think they are frequent enough.)

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In: Lion's Journal

I’ve never been subject to mood swings, especially predictable one. Since being caged I have a predictable mood swing every time my wait goes to six days. On the fifth day I am tree-humping horny. It is a good kind of frustration that is accompanied by chubbys inside my cage, and a certain amount of begging Mrs. Lion for relief.

The next day, however, everything is different. I lose my interest in sex and just feel sad. I don’t think I am sad because I want to orgasm. In fact, that is the farthest thing from my mind. I am just unhappy. I am frustrated in a most unpleasant way. I wonder why I wanted to be sexually submissive and what the hell I am doing in this cage. It doesn’t help to remind myself that this is exactly what I wanted. I am just, plain unhappy. On the seventh day, that mood lifts. I’m no longer sad about being caged. I don’t feel that I am surrounded by a bleak landscape of sexual deprivation. Some horniness returns too.

Sunday was the sixth day. It was also the day that Mrs. Lion had planned some spanking bench time. I should have been really happy, but I wasn’t. The spanking was well done, Mrs. Lion slowly increased intensity so my endorphins had time to keep pace. But I wasn’t having fun. I thought (still sorta think) that being unable to get aroused contributed to the lack of fun. But maybe it didn’t. I’ve been spanked before with no sexual component. It may have just been my sixth day syndrome.

When my waits get longer — Mrs. Lion said at least some would — Can I expect other sixth days? Even if not, do I want to put myself and Mrs. Lion through this? I realize that enforced chastity isn’t all roses and lollipops, but it shouldn’t put me into such a dark place. I have rationalized it by trying to believe that these feelings are just a reaction to losing control. But that really can’t be it. If it were, it would last more than a day and would be provoked by something that actually makes me feel controlled. Nothing on Sunday fits that description.

So, do I just suck it up and deal with sixth day blues? That may be how it ends up, but I think it may pay to try to find a way to avoid it. I know Mrs. Lion agrees. She did exactly the right thing yesterday. Any orgasm or end to enforced chastity were clearly off the table. That’s as it must be. She said that she is open going forward to adding some arousal to play. That might help. She also said that she is willing to not play if I am down. That will also help.

But the essentially unhealthy bad feelings need to be considered. Right now I have no idea how to approach them. I fully understand that being uncaged is not possible. Maybe, never let me get to six days? No, that won’t work. Well, it will work but isn’t in Mrs. Lion’s plans.

Somehow I will have to learn to deal with this speed bump. I don’t know how. Do you have any ideas?