Here we are at the end of 2014. In a few hours a new year will begin. Before it does, I thought I would spend a little time thinking about the year gone by. Our enforced chastity adventure began on January 13, 2014. I had ordered a couple of Chinese chastity devices in December 2013 and did a little experimenting for size and fit. So, in January I asked Mrs. Lion how she felt about locking me up. She agreed immediately, if not enthusiastically. So, on went one of the Chinese cages and Mrs. Lion took the keys.
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The rest of January was spent with me having quite a bit of discomfort. One cage was too big. Another, a very small one I bought, worked but was truly too small. I decided in typical lion fashion to go ahead and order a Jail Bird. Our time was well spent with the Chinese devices. We learned that a 2-inch ring let my balls escape, but a 1 3/4-inch version was comfortable and nothing fell out. In early February I ordered a Jail Bird.
In March the Jail Bird arrived. I wore it through the spring. The cage appeared a bit long. Peeing was chancy. My urethra wandered to the side almost all of the time. After considerable research and remeasuring, in June we decided to send the Jail Bird back and have the cage shortened. It was reduced from 1 3/4 to 1 1/4-inches in length. The new cage seemed too small, but after several weeks of wearing, it turned out to be just right.
Over the summer we did some traveling in our RV. Some of the travel time was spent with me uncaged. Since I was with Mrs. Lion 24 hours a day, there was no risk of cheating. I had purchased a small dog shock collar which was adapted to strap under my balls. Mrs. Lion used it a few times. It was effective for me, but she didn’t get into using it.
During the year, Mrs. Lion worked on her disciplinary skills. By fall she was administering serious punishment spankings with a very painful paddle made worse by a layer of very coarse abrasive paper. By December, I could tell which side she was using by the way each hit felt. She also experimented once with extending my wait. This one-and-only extension had a strong effect on me. It was only for a day, but I felt seriously punished. Based on her progress, I expect things to ramp up in 2015.
Sex also changed for both of us. Mrs. Lion learned to edge me very effectively. She also learned to enjoy teasing me and then locking me back up. We wrestled with her difficulties getting aroused and by year end began providing her with orgasms that she scheduled in the same way she scheduled mine. We are both encouraged by that.
Some of my darker kinks began emerging late in the year. I expressed my as-yet-untested interest in private humiliation. Well, not entirely untested. We had experimented with diapers earlier in the year. Eventually we stopped because it became annoying to me and Mrs. Lion has a soft heart. We did a brief rediaper in December, but stopped again because it was too much for me. However, I also expressed an interest in possibly wearing panties. Mrs. Lion went one better and painted my toenails. I ordered a couple of pairs of male panties because I am dumb. They won’t arrive until mid-January. However, Mrs. Lion understands and appears to enjoy this kink.
Now, as the year closes, we are wondering how we should celebrate our enforced chastity anniversary. Mrs. Lion has decided that I will have a New Year’s Eve orgasm and another on January first. We want to do something special on January 13, but so far no ideas. Do you have a suggestion? Please let us know.
So, on this last day of 2014 I can say without reservation that this year has been nothing short of amazing. Our sex life has been revived. We are much more physical with one another. We are still best friends and totally devoted to each other. It’s been a very good year.
Also, you are part of our lives as well. It feels very good knowing that you are sharing our adventures and sometimes offering advice, questions, and comments. I hope your year has been as memorable as ours and we both wish you the best in the year to come.