We woke up late this morning. Well, that isn’t really true. The dog woke us up early but we both told her to knock it off for a while. By the time we finally got up and Lion made a wonderful French toast Valentine’s breakfast, it was quite late. Then we went out and ran some errands. I needed to do some work and completely forgot about my post until a few minutes ago. Oops!
Over lunch, Lion was looking at his phone and said his calendar said it was Valentine’s day all day. I told him mine didn’t say that at all. I showed him my calendar. It says “Lion O” for today’s activity. He likes my entry better. I do too. If Mr.is up for it, he will get his scheduled orgasm tonight.
If he’s not horny enough then we’ll wait. I can understand his not being ready for an orgasm on a scheduled date. You schedule haircuts and dentist appointments. Orgasms are usually not scheduled. We’ve had some discussions over the scheduling (or not) of orgasms and what to do if he’s not horny on his date. The thing is, once we identify a “problem”, then Lion tries to solve it. And once I decide what should happen, Lion tries to change it. Up until the other day I had no idea he felt let down if he had an orgasm when he wasn’t ready. Problem. So what do we do about it? We can wait till the next day he’s horny. No big deal. Then he says he should have to wait until the next scheduled date. Why? Because that’s how it should be. Says who? Um.
The who that says how it should be is me. I’m sure if you ask Lion he will tell you “we” decided that he should wait till the next scheduled date. Here is what I decided: if he is not ready for an orgasm on his scheduled date, I will decide if he will get an orgasm the next time he is horny or if he’ll wait till the next date. It will depend on my mood at the time. My whim. My need for giving him an orgasm.
Tonight when I unlock him I will ask if he is ready for his orgasm. And if he is not ready I will decide what comes next. On the fly. With little to no input from Lion. He’ll probably give me lots of input, but I will make the decision. He may or may not like it. Oh well. That’s the life of a caged Lion.