Rewards and Punishments

Lion now has a brand new Good Lion coupon for his collection. He’s been making dinner a lot and I thought he deserved a reward for it. It’s good for an extra play session of his choosing. No orgasm, but he loves the attention and he gets to choose what kind of attention he gets. That’s handy when he feels I’ve neglected a certain type of play.

He’s still got four days left to wait and he’s very horny. The past few waits he hasn’t been grumpy at the six day mark. We’ll see if he is this time around. I’ve also been behaving myself and not giving him bonus orgasms. I’m not sure if that affects his grumpiness or not. I mean, is he grumpier when he thinks I might give him a bonus orgasm and I just don’t? Is he more resigned to the idea that I won’t give him a bonus so he doesn’t get grumpy? The grumpiness was not a problem that I was trying to solve. At some point he told me it might be better if I didn’t give him so many bonuses.

The other night I was trying to give him a ruined orgasm. Today I’m wondering what would happen if I gave him a ruined orgasm every time I played with him during a given wait. Would it make him hornier because he almost got there but not quite? Or would it let off some of the pent up steam? I think it might be worth trying just to see. I have to keep experimenting so Lion never gets bored.

My next task will be to come up with some useful punishments for him. Maybe I need to give him an assignment and if he doesn’t complete it he gets punished. That would be very easy for him to “forget” just so he does get punished. That sort of willful disobedience would get a bigger punishment. And, well you can see where that’s going. If he wants the punishment to begin with then “forgetting” would be the way to go. It’s not normally in his nature to game the system, but in the back of his mind he might think about it. I wouldn’t want to encourage that. I’ve always been of the mindset of rewarding good behavior rather than punishing bad behavior. Not that I’m always great at the rewards, but I don’t want to make people feel worse.

On the other hand, I’ve never encountered anyone who actually wants to get punished. Except Lion. After all these years I’m still trying to figure out how to deal with that. It’s definitely been a challenge. I’ll get it, Lion. I just need to keep trying.

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