Different Styles Of Enforced Chastity
It’s been really quiet here. Mrs. Lion is back at work and apparently many of the hiring managers are taking the week off. I truly hate waiting for the phone to ring. I need to find work soon. After Sunday’s explosive orgasm, I figured my interest in sex would be next to nothing. But no, yesterday I was quite horny. I’m glad that I’m still interested in sex. I would not want a repeat of last week’s loss of libido. The long weekend was great fun. It always feels so good when I’m with Mrs. Lion. I didn’t make the same mistake that I did on Friday. I reminded Mrs. Lion that Tuesday is maintenance spanking day. Monday night’s spanking did a good job of reinforcing the point. Maintenance spankings are much easier to take than punishment.
Thursday is my 500th day of enforced chastity. I’m not sure that this is any sort of milestone, but it’s a nice, round number. A lot has changed in those 500 days. My sexuality is completely centered around Mrs. Lion. She, in turn, has remained in firm control of it. While her interest in sex is still lost, her management of mine is skillful and frustrating for me. While it would be preferable for her to regain her horniness, she’s compensated so that my libido doesn’t suffer more than she happily makes it. I can’t complain. It’s exactly what I asked her to do.
Meanwhile, I’ve discovered other, similar souls engaged in enforced chastity. It’s been big fun reading their blogs and following along with their lives. The other day I mentioned that Steeled Snake and his keyholder, Charmer, were playing a very challenging game. Snake was to masturbate 12 times between Friday and Monday night in order to win extra points in a game they play. Sadly, Snake didn’t make 12. He worked hard and did come seven times. I don’t think I could do that well. Their game uses a point system. As I understand it, Snake must accumulate 1,400 points by the 14th day he is waiting. If he does, Charmer may give him an orgasm. If he doesn’t have enough points, he is ineligible to come until he gets at least 1,400 points no matter how long it takes. If he exceeds that number, he may be eligible for a bonus orgasm before the 14 days are up. Even if he gets the requisite points before 14 days, Charmer can still make him wait if she wants. They have their own twists on this. Behavioral lapses results in deductions. Extra-good behavior gets bonus points. You can read more about this on their blog.
This game requires some bookkeeping. Charmer, with Snake’s help I’m sure, keeps track of the current score. It’s a reward based system that leaves plenty of room for Charmer to be arbitrary if she wants. They both like it and are working on refining it further.
I’m learning that there are multiple ways to approach enforced chastity. The Snakes’ system involves keeping score. There is a lot to be said for this system. It offers endless opportunities to incentivize Snake to any behavior his keyholder wants him to adopt. He works for that wonderful reward: ejaculation. I guess the nerd in me is strongly drawn to this sort of game. It’s fun to work for a possible reward. This sort of system never occurred to me. We have a different approach. My orgasms are arbitrarily given to me by Mrs. Lion independent of behavior or accomplishment. Failure to do what I should is punished. So she still has strong control over me.
Incentives and punishments. What a powerful combination that can be. I thought I had this power exchange stuff all figured out. I was wrong. I have a lot more to learn.