Not Horny? Wait Longer!

Yesterday I felt regular twinges of desire; nothing specific, but interest nonetheless. I realize that tomorrow is my scheduled orgasm date. I suspect I will be up to the challenge. The only question is how enthusiastically I will react. On Sunday, Mark left this comment:

I think you need to lock lion up for a month with no orgasm. maybe some t&d. but he gets to cum too often.

Mrs. Lion indirectly referenced it yesterday in her post.Mark brings up a fairly common misapprehension about enforced chastity. Unless you’ve actually done it, you probably think that the more time spent unable to orgasm, the more desperate the need to cum. Therefore, if waiting a week doesn’t produce the required amount of desire, waiting longer will increase desire. That is absolutely untrue, at least for me. Even with daily teasing, after a point my interest will fade.

It turns out that we males are more sexually complex than we think. Before enforced chastity I always assumed that the longer I go without an orgasm the more I will want one. It didn’t take long once I was locked up for me to find out that all those years I was wrong. As I’ve written before, my desire follows a predictable pattern. My interest in orgasm declines as time goes by. Regular teasing by my lioness keeps the flame alive, but it can’t prevent it from getting down to a flicker eventually.

I also learned that despite the wait times, teasing, and other stuff, my interest can fade for no apparent reason. I’ve always thought it was a biological cycle. I think it might be. What surprised me on Sunday is that this cycle can be interrupted; not by teasing but by another activity that I find very arousing. In my case it was being tied into the sling and then figged. Just thinking about the proceedings made me ready to get hard as soon as Mrs. Lion touched my penis. So, to some degree Mrs. Lion was right. I was bored by our routine. I didn’t realize it, but she did.

The prescription for my loss of interest was a bit of S/M. Kinky lion.

Caged male half of a happy couple practicing enforced male chastity and domestic discipline. Locked since 1/2014. Domestic discipline 3/2015. Lion's first mouth soaping was 7/17.

2 comments on “Not Horny? Wait Longer!
  1. Mark says:

    You are very lucky to have a partner that will give you an orgasm every day. I certainly would not run from that.. Personally, I have found that about week two in chastity I am a raging fucking horn dog. It’s an incredible feeling that just sticks with you 24/7. How long has it been since you have done a long denial. Might be worth trying it again.

What do you think?