Mostly Vanilla Holiday

We’re back to work today. I’m also back in my cage. The four-day weekend was great. Mrs. Lion and I had a no-pressure, lots-of-rest holiday. Our families are across the continent, so it was just the two of us. It felt very good to be together and relaxing. My cage came off on Thursday for my Christmas Eve orgasm (doesn’t everyone do that?) and stayed off until Sunday before bed. I had two great orgasms, one from Mrs. Lion riding me (reverse cowgirl) and the other with her hand. Just like normal folks! Well, almost. She did give me a play spanking on Friday before the hand release. Saturday, we went to a casino; she won and I lost. It generally works that way; one of us wins and the other loses.

The point is that we had fun without any power-exchange alterations. She remained in charge. I got sexual stimulation when she decided I should, and all of our rules were firmly in place. The only thing that wasn’t was my chastity device. We both know that the device isn’t needed for me to avoid unauthorized stimulation and orgasm. However, being unlocked did mean that I was able to get some really nice morning erections. I do like them! It was also easier to shower and use the toilet. A bit of less work for lion. Nice.

I don’t fully agree with Mrs. Lion’s post yesterday. I don’t think of the Jail Bird as a security blanket. It’s more of an insurance policy. I believe, probably erroneously, that if it stayed off, Mrs. Lion would forget to tease me. We went through a lot of years of almost-no sex. I worry that could repeat itself if I am not locked up. In that sense she is right. It makes me believe that all is well and I will continue receiving regular teasing and orgasms. I’m not sure that worry will ever disappear. It’s nothing she does. I just worry.

Of course the other big reason I like being locked up is that it turns me on. I love bondage in general, and the cage in particular. Unlike any other form of power exchange that I know of, enforced chastity doesn’t require me to be a submissive. I can remain as dominant as I want to be while still being under sexual control. It works that way because no matter how much I like to be in charge, if I want my penis to get stimulated I’m going to have to earn Mrs. Lion’s desire to give me sexual attention.

It’s no different than obeying the law. You don’t have to be submissive to actively work to be law abiding. It isn’t because you are submissive to cops. It’s that you know the consequences of law breaking are to be avoided. The same is true with enforced chastity. I agreed to be locked up. That decision, which you could reasonably consider submissive, permitted Mrs. Lion to take charge, not only of my sexuality, but of anything else she wishes. My testosterone will convince me to be docile and obedient. My cock is under lock and key and she has the key. Need I say more?

Caged male half of a happy couple practicing enforced male chastity and domestic discipline. Locked since 1/2014. Domestic discipline 3/2015. Lion’s first mouth soaping was 7/17.

What do you think?