2015 (Page 184)

The first thing I did for my lucky Lion last night was to remove his pink nail polish. Why? It was so last year’s color! Actually I want to try out the sparkly purple and I can’t do that unless I remove the pink. And Lion will get some time without girly toes.

He was hornier last night too. I thought he might be. Unfortunately, my plan to ride him to orgasm didn’t happen. Wrong time of the month for me. He was still extremely happy to have his last orgasm of 2014. I can’t tell you how many he had in 2014. We didn’t start the Lion tracker at the beginning of our chastity life. And I haven’t been as consistent as I should be with it anyway. Perhaps we’ll have a running total for this year. Starting with tonight’s.

I know it seems ridiculous to most of you that locking Lion up has actually given him more opportunities for orgasms, but given our previous sex life his luck had to improve. Although there are some caged males out there whose luck has not improved by being caged. Now that I have made some baby steps toward taking the power that Lion has wanted me to have for a long time, it’s up to me when and how he comes. So far I’ve decided that I don’t want him to wait long. He agrees with that 100%. Of course, if I change my mind and decide that he should wait longer, he has no choice but to agree with that 100%. I’ve always thought it would be better to be a benevolent dictator. Give the people what they want! Lion likes that.

Lion, aside from posting a nice picture of his sexy buns, has made some resolutions for the new year. I resolved a few years ago never to make another New Year’s resolution. So far it’s the only one I’ve ever kept. I have, however, adopted a chastity mantra: be more consistent. Along with that I have an opposite mantra: don’t be boring. Some people might think of consistency as something as simple as having the same thing for breakfast day in and day out. To me that’s boring. If I always unlock Lion and just edge him and lock him back up, that’s consistent but it’s also boring. To me, consistency is playing with him at least every other day, punishing him every time I see him doing something wrong, setting orgasms dates and following through on them, entering data into the Lion tracker, etc. Not being boring is adding spanking or ball swats or Velcro or butt plug to the edging. Maybe not every time, but enough that he doesn’t just roll his eyes and yawn when he sees me coming with the key.

So here we are in the new year and I’m looking forward to more of the same. 2014 may have had its ups and downs but it was also the year we started our chastity experiment that turned into a lifestyle. Neither of us thought it would last this long and neither of us wants it to end. Full speed ahead, Lion!

I generally don’t make New Year’s resolutions. Not that I’m perfect, as you well know, but because I just feel badly when I invariably break them. However, this year has been different and next year will be too. Over the last eleven months I have made almost every mistake in the enforced chastity book, if there ever is one. So, dear reader, here are my 2015 enforced chastity resolutions:

• Whine and growl less. Accept Mrs. Lion’s decisions gracefully and without complaint. Don’t complain about punishments or changes she makes in me.
• Lose 50 lbs. Shed that extra weight once and for all.
• Post daily to MCJ. Been doing that but there have been times when I have been tempted to skip days when too lazy or without much to say.
• Be more obedient. Obey both the word and spirit of Mrs. Lion’s orders without question or complaint. Do not ask endless questions to clarify her orders. Accept her training and work very hard to follow it at all times.
• Be more patient with everyone. Be kind and patient to servers and customer service agents. Calmly and politely answer their questions without growling or being sarcastic.

I know that isn’t a long list but it has a better chance of being done if I keep it short. Right?

The last year has been very different and rewarding. Mrs. Lion has made great strides and as a result our sex life has been getting better and better. She has taken more control. Unfortunately, I’m not fundamentally submissive, so her task is much more difficult than it could have been with an out-of-the-box submissive male.

On this first day of 2015, only two weeks shy of a full year of enforced chastity, I want to express my gratitude to Mrs. Lion for making this adventure possible. I also want to thank Mistress MM and William of Mature Metal who have patiently helped me perfect my chastity device. I also want to thank you for joining us on this ride.

Have a very happy New Year!