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Linus, I mean Lion, needs his cage on to feel secure. I guess I can understand. We all have things that make us feel more secure. Maybe you have a rabbit’s foot or a lucky coin. Maybe you bought a car because of it’s crash test rating. Maybe you have an alarm system for your house. Passwords and fingerprint sensors. Everyone needs security. Lion likes to be able to reach down and feel his cage.

I know it’s more than just feeling it locked on. As much as he says it’s there as a reminder he “can’t” do something, it’s really there as I reminder that I “won’t” forget to play with him. He needs me, not only sexually, but in his life. He is dependent on me for so many things. The truth is, we’re dependent on each other for so many things. I think I may have mentioned in prior posts that my parents were physically handicapped. In a sense, they completed each other. I think Lion and I complete each other.

Last night we were watching a TV show and an older couple came into the emergency room. The wife was having trouble breathing and the husband was beside himself. He didn’t want to lose her. Lion asked if I was that worried when he was in the hospital several years ago. His wasn’t as severe an issue. I didn’t think he was in any danger of dying. Once I knew the infection hadn’t spread, I was more worried about the doctors and nurses because of Lion’s surly behavior. He growled the entire time he was there. But I was right there by his side every day. Where else would I be? I think if I was in the hospital I’d still be worried about the doctors and nurses because Lion would give them very little peace until I was better. It’s what he does.

So, tonight, after I tease Mr. Weenie, I will lock Lion back into his cage. I haven’t decided if I’ll leave him wild in the span between his next two orgasms. It’s more convenient, but I don’t want Lion to feel insecure. [Lion – A one day break from wearing my cage will not make me feel insecure. I’ll like it.]

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In: Lion's Journal, Male Chastity

This is the last day I will be running around without my cage. Mrs. Lion asked if I would like staying wild until after New Year’s day. Part of me does. It’s much more convenient not to have to worry about peeing or making adjustments to avoid a pinch now and then. I’m not worried that if I’m not locked up again tomorrow that the cage will just fall by the wayside. I know it won’t. I just don’t understand why I would be wild for so long. And, I miss the security of the chastity device. I’m less than three weeks shy of two full years wearing it. It’s become part of me. So, I said that I didn’t want to be unlocked all next week.

As she wrote in her post yesterday, being in a device isn’t actually necessary to assure I won’t run off with another lioness or jerk off on my own. A lot of guys started in chastity devices and after some time stop wearing the devices while the power exchange continues. I think I understand my reluctance to give up the Jail Bird for more than a few days at a time. I believe that the physical presence and the need for Mrs. Lion to unlock me for attention prevents us from allowing other things to interfere with our play and orgasm schedule.

It’s ironic that the physical cage is in my mind the key to psychological changes we have made. It’s a talisman that assures our growing intimacy will continue. You know, cage off today, no blog article tomorrow, sex gone the next day. That’s my fear. I realize that it isn’t necessarily true, but that little cage keeps those fears at bay. Am I really that insecure?

On some level I must be. Deep down (shhhhh, don’t tell anyone) I am always afraid of being abandoned. I made my peace with this fear a long time ago. That doesn’t mean it is gone. It just means that I recognize it has no basis in reality and isn’t going to affect the way I live. Then why the strong wish to stay caged? I know Mrs. Lion will never leave me. I know she will always want me to be happy.

The simple truth is that I don’t want to find out if I am right or not. I want the power exchange to thrive and grow. Wearing the chastity device removes any sexual choices for me. I like that loss of control. The cage makes it clear that I don’t have any control. Mrs. Lion has learned to reinforce that feeling with the way she talks to me. I like it. Being cage free for a little while is a nice relief, but it puts me into the world of “won’t”. I like it better in “can’t”.

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In: Mrs Lion Comments

Lion had the second of his Christmas orgasms last night. I teased him a little bit and then I had him roll over for a play spanking. When he’s hard before I spank him, Mr. Weenie pokes out from under his balls between his legs and I can tease him a bit more. I like the view from that angle too. Sexy buns, balls and cock all in a row. Yum! I gave him rosy cheeks and then had him roll over again. Since it was his second night in a row, I probably should have teased him a bit more but I went right for the orgasm. I don’t mean right for it. I did build up, but I didn’t edge him over and over again.

When I was done he asked why I hadn’t done any oral teasing. Sheesh! He’d been ridden the night before and now he wanted oral too? Greedy much? I told him if I had given him oral he wouldn’t have anything to look forward to on New Year’s eve. I don’t want to spoil him too much. As it was, I left him wild overnight. He could pee standing up. He didn’t have to worry about the cage pinching. What more could he want? Oral. That’s what.

I’m just kidding him. I know he’s not greedy or spoiled. He may not have even wanted to be wild. I’ve thought about leaving him wild until after the last of his New Year’s orgasms, but I don’t know if he’d like that idea. I may see leaving him wild as a present, but he may look at it another way. I think it shows him I trust him if I leave him wild. Of course I trust him even if he never wears the cage again. I’m not abandoning the cage idea. I just like to give him vacations from time to time. He sees it as a reminder to me to play with him. Actually, I forget the cage is off and I go for the key even when I don’t need to. Or, like him, I reach for the cage to tease him and it’s not there. So do we need the cage anymore?

I don’t think we ever needed the cage in the sense of Lion cheating or even playing with himself once we decided to revamp our sex lives. The cage is a tool, much like the paddles and butt plugs. It brings things into focus for us. When I give Lion his unlocked vacations, it’s not like I’m telling him he’s free to fuck anyone we wants. I know he won’t. I like to allow him to pee standing up and not be pinched and wear whatever underwear he wants to wear and feel the breeze. It’s sort of the difference between being in traffic and having the whole road to yourself. You’re still in your comfy car, but nothing is in your way.

If orgasms are his Christmas gifts, then maybe a wild weenie is the stocking stuffer.

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In: Lion's Journal

As promised, I got delightful orgasms on both Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Very nice gifts. My next scheduled release is less than a week away on New Year’s Eve. That will be followed by one on New Year’s Day. After that, I don’t know. I’m writing this Christmas night. Tomorrow is boxing day in England. For us, it is the third of a wonderful four day weekend. We spent the day yesterday watching TV and cooking our Christmas feast. We smoked a turkey, made sweet potato casserole, mashed potatoes, stuffing, and gravy. We had a wonderful meal.

Christmas, more than Thanksgiving is when I look back and consider my good fortune. We had a difficult year financially, but a wonderful one in terms of our growing love. It wasn’t too shabby sexually either. We’ve fallen into a comfortable rhythm with enforced chastity. It’s become part of our marriage that neither of us wants to end.

Our blog has brought us new friends and has given us a place to express our thoughts and feelings. We are a pretty lucky pair of lions. Every single night since we have been together, the last thing we do is  to say, “I love you.” It’s not a habit. It’s one more chance to let each other know how happy we are to be together.