By:
In: BDSM, Lion's Journal

Mrs. Lion and I wrote our posts at the same time (Sunday morning) because we have no cell service here and have to go to town to upload our posts. After we finished writing, we read each other’s post. We’ve done it again! We both wrote about the same subject without discussing the topic. We just naturally operate on the same wavelength. My post below was written before I had any idea what Mrs. Lion was going to write. After she read this post, she said, “We can try that.” Tune in to Mrs. Lion’s post today to find out what happens next.

We still haven’t played this vacation. I think that we will have better luck at both play and sex if we move it much earlier than bedtime. I can understand why most people do sexual things at bedtime or first thing in the morning. After all, those are the times we wear the least amount of clothing; none in my case. Intimacy is highest at those times.

I don’t think either of us are at our sexual best at those times. My history with BDSM has me playing during prime time (9pm to 1am). That’s because play parties I attended were during those hours. When I think about it, the worst times for me are when I have a full belly or I am tired. I suspect Mrs. Lion feels the same way.

What’s the problem with making play time happen away from first and last thing of the day? Mostly it’s because at those times we have always done other things. Even though I am most likely naked, we have the lifelong habit of filling those hours with non-sexual activities.

We know we can add new things to our daily routines. We are more than three-quarters through our third year of enforced chastity. I think one reason we have been so successful is that we have specific activities we agreed to do almost every day. I’m not suggesting we do BDSM on a daily basis, though if Mrs. Lion wants to, we could. I am suggesting that as a start we agree that every weekend day, including holidays, we play sometime between beakfast and dinner.

I think this will work because once we make an agreement, we do it. For example, every Monday and Thursday is punishment day. If I have done something needing correction, in the early evening after dinner and Mrs. Lion’s shower, the paddle comes out and I am spanked. We always seem to do it at that specific time.

Even though we haven’t discussed it, the regular time helps. So, maybe we should do the same with play. Even if it is juat edging, maybe we need to move it further from bedtime. Maybe BDSM could be on Wednesday evening and Saturday and Sunday afternoons. That doesn’t restrict Mrs. Lion. She can do things any other times as well. But we agree that those three days are no-excuses occasions.

On days when she wants, Mrs. Lion can also substitute BDSM to go, with me wearing a take-out butt plug, diapers, or whatever else she wishes. The point is that play is happening. We aren’t pushing it into the background. Similarly, maybe we could try moving the daily edging away from bedtime as well. Perhaps move it out of the bedroom entirely.

I am unintentionally trained to react to being edged in bed close to sleep time. It might be more interesting to vary that a lot. I have only been edged on my back. If teasing moves out of the bedroom, I might learn to get hard almost anywhere once I have been conditioned to be teased in other settings. Oh my!

By:
In: Mrs Lion Comments

 

Last weekend I had the brilliant idea that maybe we could plan our summer trips around county fairs in the state. I went so far as to find out that there are 39 counties in Washington. After yesterday, we’re pretty sure we don’t want to do that; at least not all county fairs. I’m sure there are some counties that have wonderful fairs. We’ll have to do some research before we commit.

Despite his orgasm the other night, Lion was horny yesterday. That doesn’t happen often. He usually takes a day or two to recharge. Maybe he really likes the return of 2.0. Unfortunately we were both very tired last night, so there was nothing more than snuggling going on.

Lion and I have every intention of playing when we’re away. I have my travel bag of tricks. This time I even brought the nJoy butt plug. There is a small box of diapers in the camper. But for whatever reason, we wind up not playing. Not always not playing, but more often than not we “just” snuggle. I think it’s because we don’t have a routine in the camper.

At home, we come home from work, eat dinner and then go into the bedroom to watch TV. After showers and settling in we have the opportunity to play. Maybe we’re tired. Maybe we’re not feeling well. But we have our routine in place.

In the camper, we tend to sit in the living room and watch TV. We’re usually tired from whatever adventures we’ve had during the day. Sometimes we both fall asleep in our recliners. By the time we move into the bedroom, we’re ready to snuggle in to snooze.

This is our last trip of the season. I don’t see us making any great strides on the play front. We may still play, but it won’t be a routine. We’ll have to work on it for next year. And, of course, we’ll work on our routine at home as well.

By:
In: Lion's Journal

One thing about being so far from the busy world is that my mind drifts away from our power exchange. I suspect that Mrs. Lion’s does too. We always have good intentions of using these days together for play, but it doesn’t seem to materialize. The same is true so far on this longer trip.

Of course, Mrs. Lion has had on and off stomach issues. That certainly gets in the way of other things. We also enjoy exploring the local area, even though we’ve been here several times before. It’s just so beautiful. This trip, the weather isn’t terribly good. Night time temperatures have gotten down to 40 deg. F and the days briefly hit 65. It’s not the traditional Labor Day weekend heat we generally get. This does give us more in-camper time. However, with the exception of a fantastic oral orgasm Friday night, we haven’t done much.

I should say that I am writing this Saturday morning. Since we have no Internet or cell phone access here, we have to do our writing and then drive 12 miles into town where we get a cell signal and can upload our posts. So, with most of Saturday in front of us, I don’t know what may be in store for me between now and Monday morning’s post.

To tell the truth, I haven’t much felt like playing so far. I was very horny until Friday night, but I wasn’t craving the activities I had written about in recent posts. I am just enjoying the companionable comfort of our time together. That’s certainly not a bad thing. There is so much more to our relationship beyond BDSM, enforced chastity, and domestic discipline.

The one thing we always do on our trips is appreciate the opportunity we have to spend all of our time together. We even like riding in the truck and enjoying the scenery togetether. The conversation is easy and comfortable. I just love being in the same place as my lioness.

That’s the thing. Enforced chastity and FLR helps us fill in some gaps we believe are important. But without them, we still have so much we can be happy without them. That may be why play always seems to slip away on our vacations. Even though it is something we have both decided to do, everything else is just so wonderful, we forget what we planned to do. We are a little less than halfway into this trip. Who knows what we will do with the rest of this time?

By:
In: Mrs Lion Comments

We’ve stumbled across our second county fair in as many weeks. They’re very small counties as far as population is concerned, so the fairs don’t offer much. Last week we saw part of a rodeo with six calf ropers and about as many bronco riders. This week’s fair features horse racing, or so the poster promises. It’s been chilly and overcast with showers thrown in for good measure, so we’re waiting a little while for it to warm up. We may run out of things to see after an hour, maybe two. Then we’ll be off on our next adventure.

If you pay attention to the numbers on the right side of the page, you’ll notice that Lion had his orgasm last night. I’m not sure why I did it. It was at least a day early. And he was snarky with me just beforehand. I wanted to suck him to the edge a few times just to really get him going, but as I was sucking I wondered how long he could take it if I did it really slowly. For the most part, what I did was not move my head up and down, but rather I moved my tongue slowly. When I felt him getting close I stopped. And then I went right back to work on him. He lasted quite a long time when I finally went in for the kill.

It’s interesting that he didn’t start bucking. Sometimes when he gets very close to the edge he can’t help himself. Maybe he just couldn’t believe that he was going to get to come. Maybe he just couldn’t believe that he would come so slowly. If you think about a volcano, Lion usually comes like a pyroclastic explosion. Last night was more of a lava flow. A slow and steady trickle, if you will. Still the same amount of yummy goodness, just not all at once.

Lion’s next date is almost two weeks out. It will be one of his longer waits. Certainly nothing compared to other chaste males, but we don’t go for long waits. Lion’s sweet spot is between four and ten days. My sweet spot is whenever I get the urge to let him come. Neither of us is sure when that will be.