On The Way Back
Mrs. Lion and I have spent a lot of time talking and writing about domestic discipline (DD). It’s no secret that we are struggling with how to incorporate DD into our lives. You might wonder why we bother if it’s so difficult for us. I asked Mrs. Lion if she thought we should just give it up. I told her it would be OK if we did.
She refused. I don’t think her refusal has anything to do with a desire to continue with a kink. I believe it is recognition that we have a valid reason to be doing it. Actually, there are two main reasons: The first is that DD gives Mrs. Lion permission to express her feelings and enforce her will. This is very important to both of us. The second is that I feel closer to her when she exercises power over me. It’s that simple. So we keep talking and writing. Hopefully, we can find a way to make it work. [Mrs. Lion — I also don’t think we’ve tried long enough to give up. I’m no quitter!]
We are both in recovery mode. I’m in my seventh week since surgery. I’m at the point when it is reasonable to resume our power exchange. Yesterday morning, Mrs. Lion locked me in the Ghost custom plastic cage. This cage was nothing but trouble the first time I wore it. It was simply so rough it rubbed me raw.
After hours of sanding, it isn’t removing skin when I wear it. It’s a three-D printed device. The makers ship it just as it comes back from the printer. That means all surfaces have a sandpaper-like finish. The first time I tried wearing it, I was bright red around the base ring and the top of my penis was scraped raw after only a few hours of wear. Given how much it costs, I would think the seller would smooth the device before sending it out.
The reason I put the time in finishing the device is the fact that it is a great design and the custom fit is perfect. Anyway, after using four grades of sandpaper and a 3M scotchbrite, the cage is smooth enough to wear. I love it! However, this product puts me in an odd position in terms of s review.
If I suggest you get one, I know that when you do you will either have to slather lube on your penis and base ring forever, or smooth the device yourself. Given that the cost of the custom cage and ring is around $300 USD, it just seems wrong to send you to their site. On the other hand, this custom nylon device is the only bespoke plastic device that you can buy. Yes, there is another machine-printed cage. I have one. It doesn’t really work for me. Ok, I’ll share my source: Custom Chastity in Australia. Buyer beware.