More Good Advice From Julie

Spanking shirt

My naughty shirt arrived yesterday along with some girly stuff. Poor Lion [Click image to enlarge.]

Yesterday, I got a comment from Julie of Strict Jule Spanks. She’s become an informal mentor to us both. We’ve only exchanged a couple of emails, but that correspondence, her comments, and her blog have been very helpful in how Mrs. Lion spanks and now forced cross dressing.

Her latest comment really turns up the embarrassment in dressing me in women’s clothes. Mrs. Lion has been shopping online for things for me to wear. She likes shopping online; so do I. It’s painless for me when Mrs. Lion shows me something she might purchase. I make a face and then she goes on with her iPad. What UPS will bring is going to be a surprise for me.

Julie suggested that it’s a mistake to buy online. She says it is more fun to take me underwear shopping and hold panties up against me while Mrs. Lion makes her purchase decisions. When she’s done, I have to bring the items to the cashier and pay for them. Hoo boy!

That will certainly embarrass me. One benefit of being locked into a chastity device is that if I get aroused, no visible erection will  be produced. This is the first case where I find a real benefit in being caged. It turns out that it may be more embarrassing to buy panties than to actually wear them.

On Wednesday night, we had do-it-yourself hot fudge sundaes. I dripped a bit of hot fudge on my shirt. One of my rules is not to get food on my clothing. I figured that I would be punished on Thursday night, our regular punishment day.

Nope. After we finished eating and got the bowls into the dishwasher, Mrs. Lion went to her behind-the-door paddle collection, selected the paddle with points on one side (the Tenderizer) and told me to lie face-down on the bed. She then gave me a very thorough spanking with at least 200 swats. There were some drops of blood where the tenderizer’s pointed side hit me. She only used it for a few swats.

When she was done, my butt was burning. She then pointed to the corner and told me to stand in it. I have no idea how long she put me there. It was very difficult to think about anything other than the pain in my bottom. Corner time is definitely a spanking magnifier. She kept me there long enough for my legs to get tired (a good thing from a punishment point of view). When I was finally released, I gratefully got back on the bed.

She asked me about my corner time. I told her about feeling the pain of the spanking. She said, “Good.” I told her my legs were getting tired. She said that maybe we could get a stool for me to sit on. We have a board with rough, gritty non-slip floor tape on it. She said that would help me feel my spanking.

Ever helpful, I suggested she could line the seat of the stool with the tape. We still have a supply of it. She said we would have to figure out what we want to get and  where we could store it when not in use. I suppose it could go in the garage and could fetch it, and return it when we are done.

We’re still struggling with over-the-knee spanking. Our recent attempt felt a great deal different to me from when I lie on the bed for my beating. We haven’t found a comfortable way for Mrs. Lion to do this. I hope we can figure this out. I imagine that the spanking will be much more meaningful and severe if I am across her lap.

We keep learning. Even though we are in our fourth year of enforced chastity and our second in domestic discipline, progress is slow. My knowledge as a top and educator is surprisingly unhelpful. I’m the bottom and I can’t really teach my top. I also admit that we are doing things I’ve never tried when I was a top. I never gave OTK spankings. My victim was generally tied to equipment.

That’s why advice from a practicing female disciplinarian is so helpful. So far, thanks to Julie, Mrs. Lion’s spankings have become much longer and effective. If she follows Julie’s advice on cross dressing, we will benefit from her experience. Maybe “benefit” isn’t the right word from my perspective. No, not from my position.

Caged male half of a happy couple practicing enforced male chastity and domestic discipline. Locked since 1/2014. Domestic discipline 3/2015. Lion’s first mouth soaping was 7/17.

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5 comments on “More Good Advice From Julie
  1. Julie says:

    Put a nice big didlo up in him and then have him sit on the rough tape, though I prefer coarse-grained sandpaper myself, with a touch of the crop to the fronts of his thighs to get him wiggling.

    As for OTK. IMO the trick is a very low and deep armless thing, such as a low bed or a firm and large ottoman. So that you can sit far back (backs of your knees right up against it), your entire backs of your thighs are well-supported, and your feet are planted firmly on the ground. Also so you can lean backwards to get more room to spank. Then he goes over. It also takes some of the weight off you if you allow his chest and legs to be supported as well (say if you are sitting on a bed). Although it’s worth a bit of additional discomfort to have him dangle as well with his toes off the ground. I love the little feet kicking (within reason)! I can keep my man there for a long long time with no discomfort at all.

    • Mrs. Lion says:

      We’ll have to work on OTK more. Maybe our couch would work. The truth is that I don’t think about OTK when it’s time to spank him. I guess I just have to make it more of a priority.

  2. Julie says:

    Very different for my david as well. He feels much more “mothered” while OTK, which I perversely enjoy. I have him lightly grab my ankle with one hand, and wrap his other arm around my backside. This way he knows Momma is punishing him! I insist he begs “please mommy, no more, I’ll be good” repeatedly before I even consider stopping. I tend to think of him as my little boy while I’m spanking him, and enjoy doing so. Very oerverted, I know!

What do you think?