Federation of Kinky Couples

One of my coworkers is leaving so we had a get-together for her last night. Normally I go right home after work. Lion was left to fend for himself for dinner. It wasn’t a problem. There’s plenty of food in the house. Lion wondered when I’d be home. (He gets lonely.) I stayed about an hour and headed home.

We watched TV and didn’t snuggle. We did hold hands for a long time. When it was time for bed Lion remarked that we hadn’t snuggled and joked that it must have been my night off. I thought that holding hands, while arguably not as close as snuggling, counted for something. I wasn’t on my iPad. Lion was kidding about snuggling. But I know he really likes the closeness.

I started to wonder this morning how other couples similar to us interact on a daily basis. They also have chores to do, work, friends, etc. Does one watch TV while the other reads? Are they on the same couch somehow touching? Are they in separate rooms? Is one out with friends? Do they play every night?

I guess some of these questions could be answered if there was a Federation of Kinky Couples with meetings every third Wednesday of the month. Similar to the Lions Club, if you will. Maybe Lion is onto something when he’s looking for some sort of club or organization where we could meet like-minded people. For the moment all I can do is ask you to comment on this post. It’s an informal poll.

I’m not railing against snuggling or playing every night. I’m just curious.

3 comments on “Federation of Kinky Couples
  1. Tom Allen says:

    Typically, Mrs Edge watches TV, and I’m on my phone or tablet browsing/reading/arguing. While we’re on the same couch, we don’t often snuggle only because it’s not comfortable for us to each do our thing. Unless she’s tired and needs a nap. Then she’s snuggling and I have to do something with my arms in order to type. Or maybe she’ll nap on me while I watch something educational. Married with Children reruns are my preferred show, or possibly old Seinfeld episodes.

  2. Mac says:

    Mrs and I have near nightly TV time together. We may snuggle or just hold hands. Play time is usually at her initiating as she has a back injury and we play around her pain, also I get up at 3am for work so any play must be fairly early.

  3. trappedandloved says:

    Patterns change over time but for the last month I have been playing on the computer upstairs in the evening while my wife watches TV downstairs.
    Before I go upstairs she insists that I kneel before her; address her as mistress and ask her in a worshipful way for her permission to do so, pledging to stop and serve her in whatever way she chooses when she so requires.
    When she comes to bed she has me massage her feet, then legs and arms with luxurious body butter while she reads the paper sitting up in bed. I do so naked wearing just my cage and she fondles me a little at times. Sometimes she also has me comb in a little hair oil into her hair. A couple of times a week she will also let me free for this while she teases and I get some ‘exercise’ and then a better wash but I have to be locked back up before bed.
    When it’s time for lights out I am required to lie on my side facing her while she fondles my caged parts and we go to sleep this way with her holding me with one hand.

What do you think?