When Lion read my post yesterday he responded by saying he didn’t know about an indefinite wait. I never said he’d have an indefinite wait. It’s just an experiment to see 1) if he ever begins to lose interest and 2) if he can regain interest after he loses it. Since his longest wait was 21 days I figured maybe we’d have to go beyond that but what if he doesn’t lose interest at the 28 day mark? I’ve been assuming he will lose interest at some point. What if that’s not true? Do we keep going?
I don’t think so. We’ve never been all about wait times. There’s no way Lion wants to go a month, a year, a decade without an orgasm. If that’s your thing then more power to you. It’s not our thing. Right now I’m committed to 21 days. Once we reach that we can decide if we want to continue or not. This is all assuming I don’t go too far when I edge him.
It’s just an experiment. I have an idea I’d like to prove or disprove. We can call it off at any time. I’d like to see what happens but it may get to be too much. There’s a lot of pressure on me to get thejust right so I don’t go too far. There’s a lot of pressure on Lion to almost-but-not-quite come. Over and over again. It’s true we both have fun doing it but it can get too intense over the course of three or four weeks.
Lion can get grumbly. I have ways to deal with that. A few punishments and he’ll figure out he shouldn’t be so grumbly. It’s all part of the game. Right now the game also includes a wait of 21 days. Maybe more. We’ll see.