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In: 2.0, Lion's Journal

Something new is happening. It is totally unexpected. It isn’t huge, but for me at least, it’s significant. Mrs. Lion is playing and seems to be having fun. She’s using her orgasm control to do “experiments”. She’s been writing about her first. It involves making me wait until I lose interest in coming.

There’s a very good chance I will stay horny. At some point, she will call it off and let me ejaculate. I know that point is at least a week away (21 days waiting). I expect it will go beyond that, maybe another week. I don’t know. But her plan is to wait for me to wane and then revive me.

I’ve had nothing to do with this idea. It is all hers. I have no input on how it will be conducted or end. I like that a lot. I’m not nuts about this long wait. My all-time record is 22 days. That was due to my shoulder surgery and my complete lack of interest in sex. This time I’ve been horny the entire time. I think she will break that record; maybe by a week or more.

In an email exchange yesterday, she posed a new question. How long would it take for me to lose interest if I am not edged? I suggested perhaps that should include my chastity device. Wearing that, I would not be able to get hard and enjoy any incidental arousal. She wrote back that she was kidding. She knows I wouldn’t like that.

Wait a minute!

I wouldn’t like it?

That can’t be 2.0 talking. She doesn’t care if I like it or not. She’s decided I will wait at least 3 weeks. She didn’t ask if I like that. I don’t. But it was made clear that I don’t get a vote.

So why would her perception of whether or not I would like being back in my cage matter? I wore that cage for 3-1/2 years. The question of whether or not I liked it didn’t come up.

Yes, it’s true that I like being wild. I like erections that I get. I’m in no danger of giving myself an orgasm. So for that portion of enforced chastity, the cage isn’t needed. But what about erection control? Penis isolation? The cage is a perfect tool to limit any stimulation to times when Mrs. Lion unlocks me. I wonder why she worries if I wouldn’t like it.

I would like it; not because it feels good to wear. Oh no. It’s because it is Mrs. Lion remaining in control. I like that. Go for it, sweetie!

[Mrs. Lion – The part I was kidding about was not edging him at all. Our next email exchange was about the cage’s potential effect on another long wait. Will the addition of the cage change whether Lion loses interest during another 21-28 day wait with daily edging? Just spitballing here.]

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In: Edging, Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm

Lion is excited. Well, yes, he’s horny but also excited about the idea of having one day of the week that signifies orgasm. Not that he’ll always get an orgasm that night. It’s similar to punishment night. If there are things on his list then he’ll get punished on that night. If there isn’t anything, there will be no punishment.

I’m balking at the idea of a designated orgasm night. Lion has suggested Saturday. What if I want to give him an orgasm Wednesday? This morning I decided it could be exactly like punishment night in that I can punish him at the time of the infraction or wait until punishment night. Lion insists we do better with structure.

Coincidentally, he says, his 21st day falls on a Saturday. And if I wish to extend his wait, the 28th day also fall on Saturday. (Stands to reason.) So I’m locked in to giving him an orgasm on the 21st day, 28th day, 35th day, etc. I know me. I will either accidentally on purpose go too far on any non-Saturday night I want to give him an orgasm or I will not edge him quite as far because I’m afraid to go too close to the edge on a non-Saturday night.

At this point I’m thinking a designated orgasm night takes away some of my power. I like having Lion think every night is a possibility. Why get all excited if today’s only Tuesday? There’s nothing to see here. Nothing will happen. It’s not Saturday. Granted, Saturday then becomes the night that it can both happen or not happen, but right now that’s every night. Why would I want to take that away?

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In: Lion's Journal, Male Chastity

After nearly four years the game has gotten much more serious. Mrs. Lion has truly morphed into Lioness 2.0. She’s made an obvious shift in her sexual control of me. I don’t want to get carried away and say that things will be totally different for me. She hates those sweeping statements. But I will say that I think there is a true change in her direction.

This all centers around when I get to ejaculate. In the past, I had a lot of control. No, I couldn’t just request or demand to ejaculate, but she would often give me an orgasm when I appeared sufficiently desperate. Other times she would give me one before I really wanted it. But, all in all, my heat had a lot to do with her decisions.

Now she is trying something new. First, she decided that my wait this time would be a minimum of 21 days. That’s nearly my longest wait to date. The record was 22 days when I had shoulder surgery and had little interest in sex for most of that time.

2.0 knows that I have never had to wait this long when I wanted release the entire time. That’s relevant to us because it gives her a standard that she knows will be extremely difficult for me. My waits have been growing in length for a while. The longest recent wait was 12 days. I figured this wait would be an even two weeks. I was wrong.

I’m starting to feel grumbly about the extra week. That’s a good thing for our game. I don’t want to wait that long. So what? 2.0 doesn’t care. The fact is the wait can be longer this time. She wants to see if I lose interest in sex. If I do, she wants to see if she can easily resurrect my heat.

I have no idea what she will do with this information, but it is great that she is holding me off because she wants to. Her stated reason is purely for her own curiosity. It’s all her!

The other significant change is her decision to punish me if I do grumble or get pushy. That’s certainly a strong, control message to me. Her punishments are very real and painful.

I do have a suggestion for her. I know, there I go. I just can’t shut up. Actually, I think she already has this idea. My suggestion is that there is a “possible orgasm” day. It looks like that is Saturday, since that was the day of my last ejaculation. It’s also a day we don’t have to work or go to sleep early.

In her post yesterday, she did say if the wait doesn’t end on the 21st day, it might go to 28 days. I know she doesn’t like the idea of being limited to anything specific, but having assigned days for things adds more “interest” to the game. For me, knowing that if ejaculation didn’t occur on Saturday means I have to wait another week before it is even possible has a lot of impact.

The idea that it might be tomorrow takes some of the suspense out of the game for me. Requiring it on a specific day of the week also gives Mrs. Lion a framework for our game as well. I think of it as a ground rule. It is a difficult one for sure. But I think we need structure here.

We both do better if we start out with specific guidelines. Punishment days (Monday and Thursday) were established to assure things wouldn’t just be allowed to slide and not be addressed. Orgasm Day has the potential to help with the discipline needed to enforce chastity when I am clearly tired of the wait.

I don’t think this needs to go on forever, but right now we both need that discipline. So, if I don’t get to ejaculate on the 21st day, I’ve got another week before I can even hope for release. I think that enhances things. It’s a way to put structure around variable wait times without requiring 2.0 to actually schedule releases.

What do you think, Mrs. Lion.

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In: Chastity games, Edging, Mrs Lion Comments

When Lion read my post yesterday he responded by saying he didn’t know about an indefinite wait. I never said he’d have an indefinite wait. It’s just an experiment to see 1) if he ever begins to lose interest and 2) if he can regain interest after he loses it. Since his longest wait was 21 days I figured maybe we’d have to go beyond that but what if he doesn’t lose interest at the 28 day mark? I’ve been assuming he will lose interest at some point. What if that’s not true? Do we keep going?

I don’t think so. We’ve never been all about wait times. There’s no way Lion wants to go a month, a year, a decade without an orgasm. If that’s your thing then more power to you. It’s not our thing. Right now I’m committed to 21 days. Once we reach that we can decide if we want to continue or not. This is all assuming I don’t go too far when I edge him.

It’s just an experiment. I have an idea I’d like to prove or disprove. We can call it off at any time. I’d like to see what happens but it may get to be too much. There’s a lot of pressure on me to get the edging just right so I don’t go too far. There’s a lot of pressure on Lion to almost-but-not-quite come. Over and over again. It’s true we both have fun doing it but it can get too intense over the course of three or four weeks.

Lion can get grumbly. I have ways to deal with that. A few punishments and he’ll figure out he shouldn’t be so grumbly. It’s all part of the game. Right now the game also includes a wait of 21 days. Maybe more. We’ll see.