Lion loved his birthday dinner. He loved snuggling too but he stopped me short of edging him, saying he’d rather do it tonight or even the next night and would love a blow job. In the past I’ve been known to give him orgasms on special days such as his birthday, but he told me recently he didn’t necessarily like that. I wasn’t planning on giving him an orgasm last night because of that.
I’m certainly not opposed to giving him an orgasm tonight or tomorrow night. I’m also not opposed to his requesting it be a blow job. I’m not sure how I feel about his requesting an orgasm on a specific night. I mean, he can request it, but….
In my opinion, Lion can’t have it both ways. Either he wants orgasms on special days or he doesn’t. I don’t have a preference one way or the other. I just need to know which play book we’re using. Perhaps if we compromise and agree that I can give him orgasms on special days, then he can choose the method. Just spit balling.
I know I have the ultimate say in when and how I give him an orgasm. I just want us to be on the same page about things.