I have a very horny Lion. I’ve gotten quite good at edging him and leaving him wanting more. Ironically, it was his own doing. He suggested having more ruined orgasms and fewer regular orgasms. I was sure how I felt about that at first but it turns out the idea was very liberating. Now that I don’t care if he has a ruined orgasm, I can push him closer to the edge. Did I go too far? It doesn’t matter. It’s just a ruined orgasm. Oops!
I’m wondering if men who say they’ve waited months and sometimes years for an orgasm have actually been getting ruined orgasms along the way. I know everyone is wired differently, but I can’t imagine a man waiting years for an orgasm. I also don’t understand men who say they don’t care if they ever have another orgasm again. Of course, I don’t understand why Lion loves bondage or being spanked in any capacity, so I’m absolutely no authority on sexual perversion.
In the past, Lion has said a ruined orgasm is unlike a regular orgasm in that he could be ready to go again in an hour or at least a short time. He’s also said that a ruined orgasm takes the pressure off and, in that sense, is no different from a regular orgasm. I have no idea which is correct. Perhaps they both are. Maybe it depends from one ruined orgasm to the next. The only thing I’m sure of is that the few times I was taken to the edge and left hanging, I was pissed. Can women have ruined orgasms too? Or, because many of us have multiple orgasms, maybe it’s not possible to have a ruined one.
What I do know is that it’s gotten more interesting to edge Lion since his ruined orgasm suggestion. I can go as fast or as slow as I want. I can let him rest a minute or go right back at it. He was always at my mercy. There’s just a little more mystery about it now.
I can’t speak for others but when I went the 485 days without an orgasm, it was without a ruined orgasm too. Lots of edging and getting close but no release.
That’s a very long time without ejaculating. I don’t want to ever go even a fraction of that long!