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We’re closing in on the end of our fifth year of enforced chastity. We started mid-December 2013. We began the blog in the beginning of 2014. Mrs. Lion and I have been married 13 years. More than a third of them have been spent in our power exchange.
Unlike the fantasies, the changes have come slowly. We started with an inexpensive Chinese cage that I found on dhgate.com. It was pretty uncomfortable and fit very poorly. I was able to keep it on without injury. When we started, Mrs. Lion would unlock me every night and give me an orgasm. It was exhausting!
I was pretty unhappy. Everything I’d read about enforced male chastity said that I should expect to be frustrated because my keyholder would tease me and then not allow me to come. Mrs. Lion was doing the opposite.
I mentioned it to her. She pointed out that I agreed to let her control when I get to ejaculate. She said that she wanted me to come every day.
“But, but, but that’s not how it’s supposed to go!”
“Says who?”
“The Internet.”
She didn’t agree that everything on the Net has to be true. Ok, neither did I. The problem for me was that all those orgasms were exhausting me. Being an agreeable lioness, she agreed to try the other way and made me wait several days between orgasms. She experimented with various waits. I ended up getting an orgasm about once a week. It was less than I wanted, but not terrible.
When we discussed the idea of male chastity for me, I mentioned that I masturbated two or three times a week. She was surprised. Mrs. Lion had no idea I jerked off. She didn’t like the idea at all. On the night she locked me up, Mrs. Lion told me to jerk off for her. Of course, I did. When I finished and got cleaned up, Mrs. Lion locked me into the cage. She told me that was the last time I would jerk off. Her first and most serious rule was that I was never to jerk off. From that day on, the only way I could ejaculate was if Mrs. Lion made me come.
I was surprised at how serious she was about me masturbating. It was something I had been doing since I was 11 years old. Jerking off filled in the gaps between two-person sex. Of course, I agreed to the rule. At the time I didn’t think it was important since I was constantly locked in a chastity device. I couldn’t masturbate.
Now, five years later, I’m not currently locked up. I don’t masturbate. I haven’t jerked off since December 2013. I sometimes miss it. But what I have instead is much better. Mrs. Lion knows that she is my only source of sexual pleasure. She understands my sexual needs and has a good time keeping me guessing whether or not I will get to come. You know, I like it too. Win/Win.
