Our Way Of Life
Mrs. Lion is most definitely starting to grow into her lioness 3.0 skin. She has most definitely improved her punishment skills. My most recent spanking, actually five days of a spanking each day, was truly severe. I felt the results for more than four days afterward. In fact I’m still feeling one patch. I’m not complaining. This is exactly what I wanted to see happen. In my mind, a spanking is punishment-grade when I feel it for at least a day afterward. I can attest to the fact that it definitely hurt more than a day afterward. More importantly, she didn’t decrease intensity because she was spanking me several days in a row.
Lioness 3.0 still has a little work to do. Now that she’s mastered the spanking, she needs to develop her offense-observing skills. She’s a fantastic offense hunter, at least when it comes to spotting me getting food on my shirt and for eating before her. Her skills are a little bit in need of sharpening when it comes to identifying and punishing things I do that upset her. Bless her heart, he’s always ready to forgive me for doing any of those things. 3.0 is a more ferocious beast. She doesn’t forgive me when I interrupt her or speak thoughtlessly.
I know it’s going to be painful for me, but I really want her to get out her claws and correct me when I do something that upsets her. I’m not too worried that she will be a tyrant. That’s just not in her blood. I think she will be much happier, and I know I will be, when she doesn’t internalize things I do, and instead lets them out with her voice and her paddle. After all, it was my hope that our Female Led Relationship with Discipline (FLRD) would help her resolve this.
I realize that my uncaged days are drawing to a close. I’m not entirely sure what role the male chastity device plays in our power exchange. Of course, it’s a powerful symbol of Mrs. Lion’s sexual control. I’m not entirely sure that symbol is very needed at this point. I don’t need protection from myself in terms of masturbation. I’ve been wild for quite a while now and I haven’t had any serious temptation to ejaculate on my own. Could I if I wanted to? I like to think that I can’t, but that’s probably not true. I just don’t want to. As they like to say in the unions, it’s not my job. That belongs to Mrs. Lion. She is very possessive about my sex organs. She refers to them as “my weenie and balls”. It’s not just a joke. She means it.
Many of the people who come to our site are new to enforced male chastity or female led relationships. A couple like us, who have been at this for six years, might be confusing. It takes time and a lot of work to get to the point that most of the things that you fantasize about our just a normal part of life. It’s true of us. We are not going back. Our marriage will always have a paddle in it and I will never have sex on my own. We are an established couple, fairly set in our ways. It’s true that there will be new reasons I get punished and perhaps new rules and practices pertaining to sex. What won’t change is our exploration of this power exchange and Mrs. Lion’s authority. That is so well-established, neither of us even thinks about living any other way.