A Simple Technique For Easy Anal Fisting
I realize that based on the title of our blog, we should be writing mostly about enforced male chastity. Well, after nearly 4,000 posts, one would assume that we’ve said pretty much all we can on the subject. That’s not entirely true. We keep learning new things and trying new devices. However, our most recent activity has centered on the flip side of my body: my butt.
Mrs. Lion and I have done anal play for at least a decade longer than we pursued enforced male chastity. She has strapped me into our sling and progressively peg me with larger (thicker) dildos over the years. It’s always been uncomfortable and I’ve never been able to tolerate much in and out movement. That kind of activity dropped off some time ago. However, Mrs. Lion has always enjoyed inserting a butt plug and letting it marinate for a few hours.
Anal play has never turned me on directly. That is, I don’t get hard when things are shoved up my ass. But I do seem to get residual arousal once the activities are done. There’s a pretty good reason for this. For one thing, inserting things and moving them massages my prostate. This is absolutely beneficial to any man. It provides a kind of indirect sexual arousal as well as promoting the health of that gland. Of course the prostate can be massaged with a single finger inserted about 2 inches into the anus. Mrs. Lion’s method is more fun.
Anyway, all these years I’ve been going about this the wrong way. I am the principal source of knowledge on topics of the sword for Mrs. Lion. I’m the one that suggested that I could be trained by having her insert and move larger dildos in and out of my butt. To some extent it worked. She always expressed an interest in being able to get her entire hand inside me. All those years all I could do was uncomfortably accept two, occasionally three fingers. She gave up after repeatedly getting stuck at this point.
Within the past few weeks I did some casual research into fisting. I had seen a video of my wife fisting her husband. I got a little excited when I looked at it and wondered why I couldn’t get fisted by Mrs. Lion. So I decided to do some research. I went to my favorite librarian, Google, which offered me quite a few opportunities to learn more. Unsurprisingly, most of the references where useless. However, I came across a few articles that seemed authoritative. Interestingly, they all agreed on technique.
Their first point was that nobody just bends a guy over and rams her hand up his ass. Porno’s that show fisting have “rehearsal” where the man is prepared for the final shoot. I never considered that. Anyway, it turns out that my idea of using progressively thicker dildos isn’t particularly useful to train for fisting, or for any other anal activities. The problem with it is obvious. Inserting a dildos involves essentially forcing a cylindrical object past the anal sphincters. Once they are opened by this object, they remain open. If the object remains in there a while, they will grow tired and involuntarily relax a bit. This is what made pegging begin to get comfortable for me.
I did learn to relax a bit so that subsequent sessions were little easier. But the fact is that my body wasn’t really learning anything important. It turns out that the key to comfortable anal activity is learning to relax voluntarily. This isn’t as easy as it seems. The sphincters are muscles that are normally contracted. That’s a good thing since it holds the poop in. Pegging, fisting, and other anal activities require that the sphincters relax to give admission to whatever objects are being inserted.
It turns out that it’s fairly easy to learn to do this. Instead of using dildos, anal training should use butt plugs. The reason for this is that butt plugs are triangular-shaped. They start with a blunt point and steadily expand to their full diameter, then there is a shoulder which suddenly reduces the diameter substantially. When one is inserted, the anus must slowly distend to accept the increasing diameter of the plug, then suddenly shut down when the shoulder passes it. The reverse when it’s removed is that it has to expand for diameter, then slowly shrink back as the plug is removed.
I always found inserting and removing butt plugs very uncomfortable. Once they were nestled safely inside me, it felt good. Okay, training isn’t about that good feeling. Instead of just inserting the plug and letting it marinate, it’s inserted and then removed immediately. It’s reinserted and removed again. Essentially I’m getting pegged by a butt plug. Mrs. Lion started with a small size (Thank goodness!) And gradually moved to larger and larger sizes.
The first time and went in I was as uncomfortable as ever. When it came out, ditto. The next time, which occurred only a few seconds later, was much easier. It didn’t take very long before there was no discomfort at all. The reason for this is that the plugs taught me to voluntarily relax the sphincter so that the plug could move in and out without hurting me. Aha! I was learning to be in direct control. Well, not entirely. I can’t open my butt on command. But, it knows what to do when something comes knocking.
It didn’t take very long at all; just a couple of days until I was easily managing our largest plug. A good part of our success had to do with the lube we used. Some of the articles I read about fisting talked about appropriate lubrication. It turns out that there are a few products that work very well in the anal arena. The two top rated ones are powders get mixed with water to produce a slurry of the thickness the Pfister would like to use. The third is a premade cream. I selected that one and ordered a jar. It’s called Eros. It’s a very special formula and very expensive, by the way. In any case, it works wonderfully. Both Mrs. Lion and I think that this loop had a lot to do with her success.
Anyway, on Friday I asked Mrs. Lion if she would like to try fingers again. She agreed and that evening instead of plugs, she used her fingers. Unlike my previous experiences, it didn’t hurt at all. It was a little uncomfortable at first, but then just a mild stretching sensation. I kind of liked it. When Mrs. Lion was done, I asked her how many fingers she got inside me. Initially she said three. Then she corrected herself and said, “Four.”
Wow! We never got near that before. Four fingers! Holy crap! I took them comfortably. When we talked about it we expressed how surprised we were at this success. Adding the thumb isn’t going to be immediately easy, but we both agreed it’s very likely she would be able to get her entire hand in within a reasonably short time.
We watched a couple of fisting videos to get some idea how other people do it. Then we settled in for a relaxing evening. I had absolutely no ill effects. I think if we keep this up on a daily basis Mrs. Lion will soon have success. She used to go in “bareback” with no rubber gloves. On Friday night she had on a glove. I asked why and she said that I had once told her that it was much smoother if she had a glove on. This is true to some extent. The glove protects me from any sharp nails or other potentially scratchy things. However, if she’s careful about her nails there’s no reason she can’t go in bare-handed if she wants.
She mentioned that it would be nice if they made longer rubber gloves. The ones we have just go to the wrist. This isn’t enough if she is going to get her entire hand inside me. I suggested she do a search for long gloves. She did and found 12 inch and 18 inch long gloves on Amazon. I ordered a box of 12 inch. This should be perfect for when she wants to go in gloved.
Since we had spent well over a decade attempting to teach me to accept her hand and had nothing even approaching success, this past week has been nothing short of a revelation. With the use of just a few inexpensive butt plugs and a jar of expensive lube, Mrs. Lion has been able to train me to accept four fingers. I expect that she will be reporting success and fisting me by this time next week.
I guess this goes to show that you really can teach an old lion new tricks.
