The Art Of Cock Teasing

Even though she was a little bit under the weather, Mrs. Lion kept her promise to do something sexual with me on Wednesday night. To my surprise, she moved to the foot of the bed and kneeled between my legs and began sucking my cock. I wasn’t sure she was up for anything at all, certainly not the high-energy cock sucking activity. It felt wonderful. She did it for a while and I got very excited. Then she stopped. She asked, “Did I get you to the edge?”

I told her that I wasn’t quite there yet. She brought her head down and went back to work. This time, she really did get me very close before she stopped. Then she used her mouth to tease me a little before beginning again in earnest. I thought this was it! She’s going in for the kill. She didn’t. I got very close and then she stopped again. She didn’t say a word. She began again. Once again I thought I was going to reach the promised land. But no! She did this to me three more times and then said, “Not tonight, dear.”

I groaned audibly. I really wanted to go all the way. I have to admit that it was only four days since my last orgasm, so it’s perfectly reasonable for Mrs. Lion to keep me waiting. Waiting was very easy when my interest in sex was low. Now that I am really interested, it’s difficult to get so close and then be left hanging. I know that Mrs. Lion enjoys frustrating me this way. I also know that she really loves to give me orgasms. It’s a good thing. Otherwise, I could be humping the air night after night for weeks. By the way, I really do that when she pulls away.

For a long time, Mrs. Lion had a lot of trouble getting me close to the edge with her mouth. Almost every time she tried she would go too far and I would ejaculate. She seems to have solved that little problem. Too bad. I’m sitting here at my desk with an erection just thinking about Wednesday night.

I’m not complaining, mind you. In a very perverse way, it’s fun for me too. I’ve heard about cock teases through movies about high school experiences. I know that some girls would be accused of being cock teases. My high school years were spent at a boys boarding school devoid of sexual experiences for me. All I know about teases is what I’ve seen in the movies. From them, I’ve learned that a tease goes on dates and comes on to the boys even allowing some petting. She stops short of any activity that would let them ejaculate.

I never asked Mrs. Lion about her high school experiences in these areas. I know she was an athlete and probably removed from the dating scene. I wonder if she heard rumors about other girls who like to tease boys sexually. I’m pretty sure that being labeled a cock tease was negative in high school society. I’m very sure that most women don’t like the idea of teasing a man sexually without giving him some sort of happy ending.

Certainly being able to bring a male to the very edge of orgasm and leaving him high and dry doesn’t have a positive connotation in vanilla society. For one thing, doing this to a guy could upset him. It’s an element of risk most women don’t want to take. I’m not claiming that teasing brings on sexual violence. I don’t believe that for a second. But I do believe that at best it’s considered bad manners to do this.

It took a little convincing to get Mrs. Lion to try. It took her a while to move closer and closer to my tipping point without going past it. Over the years I’ve had quite a few unintentional ruined orgasms or rescued orgasms (when she realizes she went too far and goes back and pumps away to allow me to go through the full orgasm). For a little while last year, Mrs. Lion claimed that I wasn’t giving her the usual warning signs before ejaculating. I don’t know what they are and I’m pretty sure she won’t tell me lest I try to suppress them. This was during my Big Slump. Now that I’m very interested again, apparently the warning signs have returned and she plays me like a violin.

In the male chastity world, cock teasing is renamed “orgasm control”. That gives it a more professional and serious-sounding name. It also implies something very important: consent. Mrs. Lion knows that I won’t attempt to finish what she started when she leaves my penis dripping and begging for an orgasm. I’ve agreed to give her orgasm control. She has a powerful tool to assure my compliance: my male chastity device. Once that’s locked on, it’s nearly impossible for me to do anything about getting that lost orgasm back. It’s possible, but I’ve never tried and don’t think I could do it. I could escape the chastity device. That would take some pain and work that I’m not willing to do.

Sometimes I’m tempted. More often than not, Mrs. Lion lets me run around wild (not locked in a male chastity device). At times like this, I could actually make myself ejaculate and end the frustration. I’ve been well-trained. Over three years of 24/7 chastity device wearing plus my knowledge that Mrs. Lion considers me jerking off akin to having sex with another female, serves to prevent me from even considering ending that frustration.

Enforced male chastity isn’t so much about the hardware. There are very few devices that are inescapable. I suspect they can all be escaped if you’re willing to use the right tools. Of course almost every male wearing a device is completely unwilling to do that. 100% of us asked to be locked up.

Being my keyholder requires becoming a very good cock tease. Orgasm control to me is more than just preventing me from ejaculating. It also includes making me desperate to ejaculate. Mrs. Lion is a great physical tease. She rarely says anything while she is playing with my penis. I’ve wondered what it would be like to be verbally teased as well.

Perhaps Mrs. Lion will create a page for the blog on male sexual teasing. She certainly has a lot to share. I think there is one critical prerequisite to becoming an orgasm “controller” of the sort Mrs. Lion is. You have to like penises. I think that a surprisingly large number of women aren’t too fond of them. They minimize hand and mouth contact. Some men who practice male chastity are required to perform supervised masturbation in the place of any keyholder contact.

This is fine. A lot of men have fantasies about this sort of arms-length sexual control. They like the idea of the penis being a tool of female pleasure that is otherwise ignored when not needed for vaginal stimulation. I never found that idea very hot at all. Obviously.

If we did have a page on the art of cock teasing I’ll bet that almost no women would read it. Based on the minimal demographic tools that are available to me, the pages about “how-to” chastity and female-led relationships and discipline are almost exclusively read by males. Of course, the tools I have are incredibly inaccurate. Would our female readers like some instructional material about cock teasing and ruined orgasms? Let me know.

What do you think?