Male Chastity Blow Jobs

Various women, including Mrs. Lion, have told me that they like putting my soft cock in their mouths and feel it as it gets hard. Obviously, I like that too — a lot. It is a feeling of power for the woman. She can make me change physically just by the simple act of holding my penis in her mouth. Oral sex gives the woman, at least temporarily, control of sex for her partner.

The first woman I had sex with commented on that sense of power. Before then it never occurred to me. Is oral sex the first form of orgasm control a couple enjoys? The male has a lot of control over his arousal and ejaculation during intercourse. If he is getting a handjob, he can always take over. But when his penis is ensconced securely in his partner’s mouth, she is in charge. She can slow down, stop, speed up, and finally push him over the edge. He is powerless.

Before Mrs. Lion, when my penis entered my partner’s mouth, a very happy ending was assured. I would usually finish in her mouth. A few times she might take me out of her mouth and finish with her hand. Or, she might have me enter her and finish in her vagina. One way or another, an oral start assured an ejaculatory finish.

Then, along came Mrs. Lion. As my keyholder, she has sexual control wherever my penis is residing. For a long time, she would only suck my cock if she intended to let me ejaculate in her mouth. She loves that. At some point, she decided that she could tease me to the edge as well with her mouth as she could with her hand.

The first few times she tried, I managed to ejaculate. Eventually, she learned my warning signs and was able to edge me as efficiently with her mouth as she could with her hand. That’s when a blow job stopped being the signal for a happy ending. She starts and stops leaving me panting and sweating.

So far she hasn’t waited until I get soft to resume sucking. I suppose that she is too impatient for that. Being in sexual control means she can bring me from soft to hard in her mouth as many times as she wants in a single session. It will be slow because I tend to stay hard a while after being pushed to the edge. I don’t know why I even thought of that idea. It is pretty impractical.

I’ll bet that very few women realize how close oral sex is to male chastity. The only difference is time. With oral sex, the wait between wanting an orgasm and getting one is brief. With male chastity, it’s much, much longer. I think it’s the same thing despite that difference. In both cases, the male is desperate for an orgasm. He has no ability to bring it on. He must wait until his partner decides to let him come. She is in charge and most of the time she knows it and likes it.

There’s a good chance that she might enjoy more extended control. What do you think?