Here we are in the depths of winter. Maybe it’s the season, but very few bloggers I follow have written anything since Christmas. That’s a little surprising. It’s not like there is a ton of stuff to do in January unless you are in the Southern Hemisphere. What do I know? I miss the fun reading.
I’ve noticed that a disproportionately large percentage of people commenting on this site are men who say their wives are no longer interested in sex. Almost all of them lament that they can’t get their wives to provide sexual attention for them. There are a couple of ways to look at this. One is that male chastity can be a one-player game and add interest and excitement to masturbation.
Many guys who wear chastity devices don’t have keyholders. Many who do handle all the locking and unlocking themselves from what I see. It doesn’t matter. Wearing a male chastity device definitely adds excitement to a man’s sex life. Reading about the subject is also hot.
Couples who actively practice it can use the male orgasm control to provide an active sex life for a man whose wife has little or no interest in sex for herself. Male chastity is a game where the stakes can get high, for the man at least. Mrs. Lion is an expert at making me desperate to ejaculate. This is a game that values cock teasing. Fun for women who like to see men helplessly beg to get release.
Mrs. Lion is the first woman I’ve known who actively dislikes the idea of me masturbating. She simply doesn’t want me to do it. Other women, I’ve known, considered it a way to get me off without having to do anything. I never liked that aspect of it. For me, jerking off was a tension-relieving activity like jogging or lifting weights. It wasn’t that much fun, but I really missed it when I didn’t get to do it. Mrs. Lion doesn’t allow it, and I haven’t jerked off since December 2013. I don’t think about doing it anymore.
It appears that there are more reasons for men who don’t have active partners to read our blog than men and women who have active-if-kinky sex lives. I could be wrong. I’ll only find out if I hear from you.
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Present, Sir!
I’m delighted you are!
Nailed it in one, wife no longer interested in sex and therefore I don’t get any attention. Ive been exploring chastity for some time but am still serking a cage that fits well. I wore one for two days and nights this week and my wife never even noticed
I’m sorry to hear that. You might want to try the Mature Metal Jail Bird cage. It’s expensive, but super comfortable.
I’m here, not so regular these days but still check in time to time to catch up.
I read your posting daily for the last three years but, do not comment very often.
Thank you for your comment. I’m glad you enjoy what we write.
I have just discovered your blog, and am reading it. Very insightful. I think i will pass it along to my wife. Also i have commented on 1 or 2 postings already. So many people are “long time listeners, first time callers” as they say in radio. Except of course it’s “long time reader, first time writer” Don’t get blue, it’s just the winter blahs, and Omicron blues.
I’m not blue at all! I love hearing from someone who enjoys our blog.
Happy New Year?!! lol. It’s been a very busy start for us. Some hugely negative things and some pretty costly things too. I know my writing has slowed, but I do have some ideas for posts. lol
I hope things work out. I miss reading your posts.
I’ve got to get more active on here. To build readership again I must be more consistent with my writing.
You mention couples using chastity when the woman has little to no interest in sex for herself. In our experience chastity has been great for this. It turns the denial from a boring “no” into an almost game. It is a win for both parties. If I get annoying asking for sex she can just say she will keep me locked longer. And when that time comes that she does want it? I am very, very ready to go and more attentive to her.
That’s great as long as you can think of it as a game.