I decided to see if changing from the security screw to a padlock on my locking cock ring would make locking and unlocking easier for Mrs. Lion. The padlock required is a special size. Mature Metal sells it as an accessory. Amazon has it as well at the same price. Amazon has one-day delivery. Mature Metal, oh well, sooner or later delivery. I ordered from Amazon.
If you are wondering what’s different about this lock, it’s the size of the hasp. The hole in the locking cock ring (their chastity devices as well) is too small for almost any standard padlock. This one (buy link here) fits perfectly. Mrs. Lion wasn’t a fan. She used it because she thought I wanted her to try it. I did. I thought it would be less fiddly. She isn’t sure it is.
I like the screw better. It’s smaller with no sharp edges. Both are secure and keep the two parts of the device in firm alignment. The padlock is more secure. The screw will work loose and can be removed with a pair of pliers. If you are ordering a new Mature Metal chastity device or locking cock ring, it’s worth the extra cost to get the security screw option. That way, you have both options available to you.
I’ve been thinking about what locking something on a penis means on a deeper level. Most men like it, at least initially, because it’s hot to surrender sexual control. That’s what’s behind all those chastity stories. Few women partners see much value in locking their husband’s cocks up. They don’t want to believe that the only way to assure he will be faithful is to be under lock and key.
I think our partners may be missing a much more profound point. Locking up his penis has nothing at all to do with sexual control. It’s a commitment on the most primitive level. It’s a wedding ring he can’t take off. That’s why my locking cock ring is the same as a male chastity device. It’s something of hers that is part of me.
It isn’t that she’s claimed ownership. Well, Mrs. Lion has claimed ownership of my weenie. That isn’t the main point. It’s that she is present at my most intimate moments. Even if I jerk off (which I don’t), I’m doing it with her device reminding me that I shouldn’t. If I am to have sex, it comes off. Since no one but her can take it off, I can only get off if she wishes.
It doesn’t mean I have to wait a long time to ejaculate. It means that she is always actively involved. She is always my partner. This is both a blessing and an obligation for her. She can’t just ignore me sexually. She knows that I have to wait for her to free me before anything can happen. I am grateful that she cares enough to pay attention to me.
I’m a big fan of both chastity devices and locking cock rings. They force both partners to participate in any sexual enjoyment the male has. What a great game for a couple to enjoy!
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