Mrs. Lion is full of surprises. This morning, she told me a pair of panties was on the bed. Yeah, she wanted me to wear them. How is it that we have dozens of yet-to-open cartons, but my panties are right there when she wants them? A mystery. She selected a red g-string with a red fringe on the back (see image above). They’re designed for a man. There’s a pouch in front that comfortably houses my cock and balls.
I had nothing to do with her decision to make me wear panties, which is great news for me. It means that she thought about things that push my buttons. I hope it’s the start of a trend. She hasn’t been feeling very well and is tired. Making me wear panties is a nice, low-energy way to assert her control. She can be diabolically creative when she wants.
We canceled our four-day mini vacation, which frees some of her paid time off to cover my upcoming surgeries. I will be getting two eye surgeries in the next couple of months. The first is next Friday. I need Mrs. Lion to drive me to the appointments. She may take Friday off. That will give us a long weekend and perhaps a trip to a casino. The one we usually visit has a restaurant that serves good sushi. I love sushi. It also has other food that Mrs. Lion likes. I wonder what I’ll be wearing under my jeans.
BDSM and sex are hard to think about if you don’t feel well. I understand that Mrs. Lion sometimes struggles to deal with the things she needs to do. At times like that, even thinking about my kinky needs takes more energy than she has. I also know that other couples have similar issues. The big problem is that knowing she isn’t meeting a need of mine stresses Mrs. Lion and makes her feel guilty. The decision to put me in panties is an excellent way to deal with my needs and her stress.
There are many other easy options when her energy is limited. Anal play–butt plugs, for example–require a little effort to insert and have a huge effect on me. The same is true of locking me in a male chastity device. Even my locking cock ring provides me with continuous sensation without requiring a lot of energy on her part.
It boils down to taking a little time to plan. The things that work for me don’t require a lot of energy, but they do need consistency. That’s why panties and locking cock toys are effective. When the energy is there, spanking and teasing are nice additions. Mrs. Lion isn’t a planner. I get it. I also know that making lists is a great way to build good habits.
She could start a list of lion activities when she has a few minutes. Then, she could review it every day and decide what, if anything, would work. This is no different from how Mrs. Lion learned to punish me for breaking rules. In the beginning, we created a structure that assured me I would break rules and she would punish me. It worked, and good habits were built.
This is no different. It isn’t about running a three-ring BDSM circus; it’s about remembering to provide the stimuli that I need and the play we both enjoy.
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Just missing that bit of colour under the panties 😜 and the picture to the chastity device looks great as Iam the Htv5 from Holytrainer.com Mrs 427 chioce colour her pick torquise green both nub an ring Like you and Mrs Lion health issue have slowed down to the spanking plus other activities as they say time heals.
It’s good that you can stil enjoy male chastity. Good luck to Mrs 427.
My wife does not care what I wear although I wished years ago that she would make me wear panties and get rid of all my men’s underwear. I bought panties for myself and got rid of my underwear. I even bought some matching panties for her. My thrill now is seeing what she is wearing that day and wearing my matching pair.
I bought lots of chastity cages. She does not like them.
Learned about the locking cock ring from you and bought one. I wore it for a month and if she knew I was wearing it, she did not seem to care.
We are on a trip now visiting our daughter. I think I brought the ring with me and am going to put it on now.
Sometimes you just have to do everything yourself!
You know that old saying, “You can lead a horse to water, but can’t make her drink.” Your wife just isn’t interested. I’m glad that Mrs. Lion is willing to indulge my kinks. I don’t think she particularly cares about panties, chastity devices, and cock rings. She cares about me and because I’ve expressed interest, she goes for it. Maybe you need to talk more about your needs to your wife and see if you can reach some sort of compromise. She doesn’t have to love what you want, just take the time to do those little things that make you happy.
Thanks for the encouraging reply. She actually does some things just for me. I just have to be patient and sometimes let her know that I am getting frustrated.
It’s just not something she has on her mind all the time like I do! Just last night she gave me a very nice belt strapping and a whipping. I thanked her and told her that I love her more when she beats me. She said that she beats me when she loves me more. This was a “reward” for all I had done in the past week for her and our daughter.