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We are both hanging in. Mrs. Lion has a headache and stiff neck. I’m a little stuffy. We’re both feeling tired. From my perspective, this is a mild cold. I tested positive again on Friday night. Mrs. Lion remains negative. We’re staying home.

I liked Mrs. Lion’s posts Friday and yesterday (“This End Up” and “It Shoudn’t Be A Surprise“). I was a little surprised. I thought she wasn’t very fond of anal activity and was neutral on the subject of spanking. On some level, she wrote that she enjoys both. I wonder if this is new. A couple of years ago, she had her “pegging project.” She was going to train me to accept her fucking my ass with a dildo. She made good progress but stopped the training.

She says that I’m responsible for the end of play spankings. She’s right. I thought that I would be confused if spanking was both a punishment and a form of play. I may have been wrong. Now that we have been practicing domestic discipline for a few years, I think that there is little chance that I will confuse play with punishment. I’m fine if she wants to resume.

She’s always said that she didn’t like spanking me. She said she did it because I wanted it. Most recently, she said that she didn’t mind spanking me when needed. It wasn’t fun, but it wasn’t a problem for her either. Is play spanking now fun for her? Based on her post, it appears that it is. I’m certainly agreeable to this change.

There’s nothing wrong with her changing her mind. We’ve both grown into what we do. If either of us read our recent posts when we started in 2014, we would probably say that it was too extreme for us. Obviously, it isn’t.

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Things are back to normal here. I have a minor cough, but I’m not really sick. It could just be allergies. I know that I’m better because I’m horny again. Even though it’s just two days after my last orgasm, I feel ready to go. I’m also working on my second book. So far, no one is interested in the first one. I’m not too concerned. The new book is going to be a lot better than the first.

Summer is here. Our daytime highs are in the upper 70’s. Mrs. Lion is much happier now that we sold our truck and camper. It’s a big load off both of our minds. It’s also a relief that we didn’t get very sick when we got COVID. It’s nice to have things look up this way.

I love that Mrs. Lion is working from home. It’s great that we are together all of the time. We get along very well. I’ve been following my rules. My last spanking is more than three weeks back in the rearview mirror. Mrs. Lion said that she thinks I want a spanking. I’m not sure that I do. I’m not sure that I don’t. It’s a good thing that it isn’t up to me.

Speaking of my hindquarters, it’s been a long time since I’ve received any anal attention. It may be that Mrs. Lion is having trouble finding a comfortable perch to administer rear attention. We solved the spanking issue with our dedicated spanking bench. I’m wondering if we might need something to make anal activities more appealing for her.

Our waxing bench is at a very good height for her to reach my body. The problem with it is that it’s located in our pantry and Mrs. Lion uses it as a landing place for various items she brings in there. In order to use it, she has to find homes for the stuff she put on it. We also have to travel to the other side of the house. It might make sense to buy another and store it near the bedroom. It’s easy to open and close. The only problem is where to store it when it isn’t in use. If we can figure that out, we may have an all-purpose play surface, a lion playground.

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It seems counterintuitive that on a male chastity blog, so much attention is paid to my rear end. Since we practice domestic discipline, my bottom is spanked fairly regularly. Mrs. Lion has also committed to regular anal play as well. This makes sense. Male chastity is about regulating my orgasms. Mrs. Lion limits them to when she thinks I should get release. Anal activity and spanking are unregulated and occur more frequently.

We spent years working out the best placement of my bottom for spanking. Over the knee never worked for Mrs. Lion. Other placements, like on the bed, didn’t afford her the easy access she needed. We finally discovered our spanking bench. It’s at just the right height, and my legs dangle down so that my entire rear is fully exposed for her attention.

Before moving to our current home, we had a sling that she put me in. The sling kept my bottom high in the air. My legs were spread so that she had excellent anal access. The height was adjusted to be perfect for her. Even though we had this setup, Mrs. Lion usually preferred the bed with me on my knees.

She feels that this arrangement isn’t ideal anymore. We have no place to hang the sling. I suggested that she could also use the spanking bench for anal activities. The only difference in my position would be with my legs apart, riding it. This might give her good access. The bench is lower than the sling. Fortunately, Mrs. Lion’s office is right next to where we use the spanking bench. She can roll her desk chair into the room and comfortably sit while she tortures me.

Maybe the spanking bench could do triple duty as a CBT handjob platform. If I lie on my back with my legs dangling off the end, Mrs. Lion could sit in her desk chair and deal with me in comfort. We have straps to hold me down. My hands and feet could easily be attached to the legs of the bench. Who knew it would turn out to be such an excellent multitasker.

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Lion has his MRI this afternoon. He says he hopes they can find his brain. I’ve been teasing him that maybe they’ll need a microscope rather than an MRI. If they find something, it may be good news if they can fix it. If they don’t find something, the question remains unanswered. Which is better? I have mixed feelings. If it can be fixed, it’s great, but what if it can’t? And if they don’t find anything we still don’t know what’s going on. Does that mean more tests? Or does he wait to see if it happens again and rush to the ER for an MRI then? Many years ago, they did an EEG to see if they could figure out my migraines. They concluded that the EEG needed to be done while I was having a migraine, but you can’t exactly schedule a migraine to coincide with the EEG. I guess I’m hoping for a discovery that is fixable.

[Lion — The problem that brought all this on was that one morning I woke up and my vision was much worse than usual. The world was dark; just shadows. I also had a hard time keeping my balance. When I had my neurologist visit, she worried that it might be an issue with blood flow to my brain. The MRIs are going to look to see if there is blood blocked or some other brain problem.]

Last night, Lion had some sort of reaction to dinner. He has it every once in a while. I think it has something to do with chicken. He thinks it’s an allergic reaction. It doesn’t happen every time he eats chicken, but he has eaten chicken when it happens. It’s weird. It left him worn out and with a sore tummy. He said I could play with my weenie, but I must have misunderstood how much he wanted me to play with it. In hindsight, he might have been okay with playing all the way. I just fondled him for a while.

He’s been making remarks about spanking lately. Perhaps it’s time for a “just because” spanking. Obviously, I couldn’t do it last night. Tonight is another night. While I have him on the spanking bench, I can evaluate using it for anal play. We won’t do any, but I can check out the lay of the land. I know his buns are accessible. I need to check out how accessible his anus is. I have a feeling it will be more than adequate. I applaud Lion for thinking of it. He may wish he hadn’t.