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In: BDSM, Bondage, Mrs Lion Comments

Lion is feeling better, as evidenced by his horniness. Apparently I am not done being sick. Friday I fell asleep after I wrote my post. Saturday I thought I was doing better. Yesterday I was not. I slept a lot and just felt crummy. And today I think I’m feeling better again.

These are the plastic clothespins I put on Lion’s balls. They take a good bite!

He mentioned being horny and made a few buh, buh, buh comments but Lion understood I wasn’t up to much yesterday. He helped with the laundry and made dinner. He even went to the store without me. There was no way I was going to get myself dressed and out of the house.

Home Depot is such a good source of Lion torture toys.

I should be able to play with him tonight. My balls got some clothes pins attached to them Saturday night. I did a mixture of wooden ones and plastic ones. Not the tiny plastic ones. These are full sized plastic that hurt like hell. In order to test the strength of a clothes pin or other clamping device, you can test it out on the web of skin between your thumb and forefinger. I’m sure there isn’t a 100% direct correlation between the sensitivity of that area and the penis or balls but it gives you some idea of the strength. If it brings tears to your eyes there you can imagine the agony it will give elsewhere.

I may tie Lion’s balls up tonight. He loves bondage and tying his balls is relatively easy unless they try to hide. Obviously there are a few variations of tying his balls but he just loves being tied in any capacity. And then when I jerk him off his balls bounce helplessly. Yummy!

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In: Bondage, Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm denial

I didn’t unlock Lion last night. I just didn’t. There was no thought to it. I wasn’t tired. I wasn’t achy. Lion wasn’t itchy. I just decided to have a night off. A little while before bedtime, Lion said I hadn’t touched him sexually at all. We’d snuggled but nothing more. He wondered why. Again, no special reason.

By bedtime, Lion was doing his comical grumbling. “Buh, buh, buh, horny.” He said his arm hurt for some reason. I asked if he’d lifted anything or strained it somehow. He said it hurt due to lack of sex. I agreed that definitely must have been it. Such a comedian! He blames all sorts of things on lack of sex. The TV show he wanted to watch didn’t record – lack of sex. He’s hungry despite eating a lot at dinner and having a snack later – lack of sex. The dog needs to go out for a third time – lack of sex. I had no idea so much was tied to Lion’s sex life. Or rather lack-of-sex life.

I promised him yesterday that we’d find time today for the sling. The dog woke us up way too early and then she went back to sleep. We lounged around watching old movies and after we both write our posts, we’ll watch a football game. Either right before or right after dinner we’ll head downstairs to the dungeon for some play. Today is Lion’s third day in captivity. He hasn’t been out of the house since Thursday night. I think he deserves some bondage and whatever else I can think of while he’s in the sling.

Tomorrow we’ll have a nice quiet dinner by ourselves. I didn’t give my friend any opening to invite herself over this time. We’re having Thanksgiving part 2. Turkey dinner with all the fixings. Yum!

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In: Bondage, Edging

When I came out of the shower last night I evicted Lion from the bedroom. I needed to change the sheets and he can’t help me except to get out of the way. When I was done I grabbed a small rope I use to tie his balls up. He didn’t know I had it until I was ready to use it.

We decided it’s been at least two months since his balls have been tied up. Probably a lot longer than that. And I’m sure the last time I did it, I stretched both balls out together. This time I separated them. Not very well mind you. It’s been a while so my tying skills are a bit rusty. It’s among the many things I need practice with.

Initially Lion told me the weather was not very warm. He’d had an orgasm on Monday night and we didn’t play Tuesday. I was willing to stop playing, but I decided to give him a chance to see what happened. He really loves being tied up so he was reacting in no time. My weenie was standing tall and proud.

I edged him quite a few times. At least twice, I got him close enough that I thought I’d gone too far. Nope. Stopped just in time. Whew! I left him wanting more and, while he wasn’t happy he hadn’t orgasmed, he was a happy Lion.

He should actually consider himself lucky. My first thought of the night was to grab some menthol rub. Depending on how much I put on him, he would not have been a happy Lion. I wasn’t going to use the harsh stuff, but when it hasn’t been used in a while, anything would be harsh. As I was fumbling around trying to tie him up, I mentioned Velcro and his hatred of it. He was very glad I hadn’t picked up the Velcro.

I’m not sure what I’m going to do to him tonight, but I’m fairly sure it won’t involve an orgasm. He hasn’t had a play spanking in a long time, but I’m not sure he can get into a comfortable enough position where his shoulder won’t hurt. That may have to wait a while longer.

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In: Bondage, Edging, Ruined orgasm

Last night didn’t go quite as planned. We started playing early as planned. I tied Lion’s balls nice and tight and started the beginnings of a hand job. The plan was to give Lion an orgasm. The plan was to edge him several time first. That’s where the plan fell apart.

The past few times I tried to edge Lion didn’t go well. He was too tired or we started too late. He sort of fizzled out. He always apologizes when that happens. There’s nothing to apologize for. The play is for him. Sure there are times I’d like to give him an orgasm, but if I can’t for any reason, it isn’t a big deal. We’ll try again the next night.

Lion always jumps to the conclusion that he must be broken if he can’t “perform”. Even if he’s been horny for days on end. Even if I just edged him the night before. Nope. That’s it. Out of order. And I’m sure he thinks it’s for good. Put the Lion out to pasture. No one will want him anymore. Humph! I know he’s not broken. And I prove it to him every time. It may take a day or two, but I don’t give up easily.

So I tied his balls last night knowing that he likes that. Bondage of any sort usually turns him on. And he was already hard from the minute I touched him. It should be no problem at all to edge him. Well…I guess I didn’t do a very good warm up. It was harder to get him to the edge than I thought it would be. And then as I’m getting him closer, I don’t want to let up because I don’t want to lose too much momentum. And then, boom! I stopped too late. It would have been a ruined orgasm if I hadn’t started up again to salvage it. Damn! Not what I had planned at all.

The original plan was to give Lion an orgasm on Christmas eve and Christmas day, and then another on New Year’s eve and New Year’s day. He balked at that. Too many orgasms in too short a time. OK. I get that. I’m going to keep at it though. I’ll edge him every night for a few days and maybe New Year’s eve my plan will come to fruition.