Category: Chastity hardware

hard lion
It didn’t take long after I removed the
chastity device for Lion to be ready to go.

I guess it shouldn’t come as much of a surprise, but I was able to get Lion to the edge last night. Why isn’t that a surprise? He’s been locked in a chastity device for a few days. When he locked it on himself the other day, he said he was hornier that night. I left him in it for a while so he could get used to wearing it. He had no trouble peeing. He had no trouble sleeping. The only effect seems to be a hornier Lion. That’s an excellent side effect.

Since he locked it on, I had no idea how to get it off. It took some gyrations but eventually I got it. I forgot it’s plastic. It looks like a painted car surface. As Lion said, it’s the color of the Ferrari he would get if he could get a Ferrari. The end piece unlocks first and it was light as a feather. It took my brain a minute to comprehend how light it was versus how substantial it looks.

Having said all this, I still dislike Lion wearing a cage. Well, I don’t dislike him actually wearing the cage. What I dislike is fiddling with getting it on and off. I understand why some women make their men deal with the cage. Push this piece this way and hold that skin that way and still pinch him and oh now the lock doesn’t line up. Ugh. This happens with any cage, especially the first few times you use it. The Jail Bird is almost second nature but that’s because he’s worn that the most.

I know I shouldn’t argue too much about the cage. If it makes Lion horny then it’s worth it. Of course, eventually the novelty will wear off and the doldrums could be back. For now, the cage is back and we’ll ride the high while we can. If last night is any indication, I’ll be making Lion wait a while for his next orgasm. It’s too much fun to torture him and make him hornier. Especially because it’s been such a long time since I’ve been able to edge him.

But we all know how weak I am. I’ll need to give him an orgasm sooner rather than later. I doubt it will be before he wants one since he probably wants one right now, but I love giving him orgasms. It’s just a matter of time before I give in.

Mrs. Lion was worried that she wouldn’t have enough opportunity to perfect her spanking. We agreed she could do “maintenance” spankings on a near-daily basis to help her along. Thursday night, on our way home from my physical therapy, I interrupted Mrs. Lion. I guess she won’t need a maintenance spanking right away. To make matters worse, later that evening I managed to get food on my T-shirt. Fortunately, or unfortunately depending on your point of view, Mrs. Lion’s leg was hurting and she decided to postpone my spanking.

Last night, she took care of business. She spanked me with her hard rubber paddle. This was the nuclear paddle option. It is the worst I ever used during my topping days.

Oh boy, did it hurt!

Mrs. Lion did not hold back. Lioness 3.0, maybe 4.0 is in full residence. When she was done, she observed that it did not cause any bleeding. I imagine this will become her weapon of choice. She noticed that I have one rather large bruise on the lower left cheek. She finished the spanking about 15 minutes ago and I’m starting to feel that bruise now. She mentioned that she thinks that might be too much. It’s impossible to say now. When she checks in the morning, she can decide if she needs to be a little more selective in which spots she chooses to give full thrust to. This is all part of the learning process. I can honestly say I hated every second of the spanking. I deserved it.

lion's penis in Evotion Orion male chastity device
Here I am in my new Evotion Orion
male chastity device.

Thursday’s mail brought my new Evotion Orion male chastity device. This is a wonderful 3D-printed male chastity device. I immediately put it on. When Mrs. Lion came home from work, I showed it to her and asked her if she wanted me to take it off. She didn’t. What a surprise! It’s been on ever since. I’m planning to write a full review after I’ve had the chance to live in it for a while.

As you can see in the picture, it’s a little different than most of the devices I’ve run across. For one thing, it’s in three pieces: the base ring, a midsection, and the tip. Evotion makes devices designed to be worn with piercings. The Orion is capable of being worn with or without one. The three-piece design makes it easier for guys with pierced penises to get the device on and off.

Unlike any other device I have, the top of the base ring is not designed to sit flush against my body. In fact, the keyhole is on the body side of the base ring. As you can see in the picture, some of the root of my penis is visible before the base ring begins. Much more about this in my review. There is one other very noteworthy feature: The design of the front of the cage allows my urethra to remain centered. I’ve had absolutely no trouble urinating in the toilet. The device has a cool Easter egg. If you look very closely at the front of the cage, you will see my name in raised letters centered on top of the front piece. That makes it easy for Mrs. Lion to be sure she has the right penis before she unlocks it.

Mrs. Lion still prefers me to be wild. She isn’t too happy about taking off and putting on chastity devices. This one is pretty easy to lock and unlock. The three pieces fit together solidly without any fiddling around.

After about 36 hours of wear, I can say that this is a very very comfortable form of penis bondage. Aside from being quite pretty and brightly colored, the Orion is extremely lightweight. The fit is perfect. It was quite easy to measure.

In the short time it’s taken me to write this much of the post, I’m feeling the bruise on my left side. I’m willing to bet it will still keep hurting me tomorrow. With a little fine-tuning I think Mrs. Lion will have an excellent teaching tool for me.

But I digress. There’s nothing like a fresh bruise to distract one from writing. It’s been quite a while since I’ve been locked into a chastity device. I’m finding myself quite horny. This is in sharp contrast to my rather indifferent sexual interest over the last several weeks. Just goes to show that I will always want something when I can’t have it. Stupid lion.

People on the Internet are famous for having long discussions about labels. They debate the authenticity of how various people identify themselves. This has been going on as long as people have been chatting online. Forums are particularly fertile ground for this sort of debate. Male chastity forms endlessly discuss “purity” of the amount of time a man is locked in a chastity device, how many orgasms he is allowed, and the various physical aspects of the devices he may wear.

A topic of particular popularity centers around the subject of orgasm denial and the value of a chastity device in the enforcement of this denial. Tom Allen, who publishes the “Edge of Vanilla“, is also a moderator on one of these forums. He decided to come up with a way of classifying the essentially orthogonal practices of wearing a chastity device and orgasm denial. If you click on this link, you can read his post. He proposes that we plot degree of orgasm denial on one axis and amount of time spent in a chastity device on the other axis. I’m not going to go through the details. I suggest you read his post.

What interested me about this juxtaposition is the idea that somehow by relating one to the other, you could learn something interesting about the man involved. In my case, I spent three years locked up except for teasing and medical visits. The next three were divided between lockup and long periods of freedom. 100% of the time from December 2013 until now, I have been in orgasm denial managed by Mrs. Lion. I never get an orgasm that she doesn’t produce for me.

I never wore the chastity device as a way of assuring that I wouldn’t have any unauthorized ejaculations. Both Mrs. Lion and I were absolutely positive from the very start that once I surrendered sexual control to her, I would no longer masturbate. I like wearing a chastity device. It feeds into my kink about bondage. I have a lot of trouble wearing one lately because the devices I own make urination into the toilet a hit or miss proposition. Still, I do enjoy being locked in.

I think that most of us are way past the point where we believe that a male chastity device is required for orgasm denial. In the old days when people believed the mythology, they thought that a device that was not removable was the only way to assure control of their ejaculations. Our community has moved way past that point and we understand that orgasm denial doesn’t require hardware.

That brings me back to Tom’s thesis. I don’t believe he is claiming there is any direct relationship between orgasm denial and wearing a chastity device beyond the inconvenience of trying to get off while wearing one. It’s absolutely possible to do it. It’s just not all that easy. It’s my understanding that Tom wanted to provide a way of talking about the degree of acceptance of orgasm denial and wearing chastity hardware.

In that respect, I applaud him. Just because Mrs. Lion denies me orgasms when I want them, doesn’t suggest I don’t get any. I got 51 in 2019. That’s more than a lot of guys who practice orgasm denial, but it’s still less than I might have had if left to my own devices. Maybe, if Tom’s matrix catches on, part of our profiles will be a fraction. Mine is probably 5/7 which represents my use of chastity devices and orgasm denial on the X and Y axes of Tom’s matrix.

If nothing else, this effort to translate these activities into hard numbers offer opportunities to see if there aren’t other correlations. Could it be that if you plot degree of submissiveness against frequency of orgasms you get more insights? How about looking at type of orgasms: masturbation versus intercourse? Maybe consider the ratio between male orgasms and female partner orgasms? If you like numbers you can have a lot of fun with this. I wonder what percentage of people in each of the quadrants of Tom’s matrix keep spreadsheets that accurately record their orgasms and the amount of time they wait between them? This sort of stuff could provide years of fodder for chastity forum participants. Thank you, Tom. You’ve given a lot of people something to talk about.

I swatted Lion again Thursday night. This time it was for annoying me on Wednesday. He wondered if his bleeding was because of dry skin. He’s been moisturizing for a few days. Still, I had him wear panties. I think I swatted harder. There was only a small spot of blood when I was done. Either he’s right about dry skin or I really didn’t swat harder.[Lion — She swatted harder!] Or maybe his hide is getting toughened up. In any case, the next time Lion needs a reminder of how to behave, he will get it without panties.

This morning, in our emails back and forth, he said his butt was sore. I suggested he think about what he did to get that sore butt. If he can remember punishment day and not annoy me, maybe he won’t have so much trouble sitting down. While we’re on the subject, it just occurred to me that his not following the rules is annoying to me. So why did I change the lesser infractions to funishments? Hmmm. Maybe this is 3.0 talking. Maybe, once I get in the habit of catching and punishing him for the more serious offenses, the lesser ones will cease to be funishments. Maybe 3.0 just needs to step up and find more rules.

Lion was in his cage for a day. He managed to spray pee all over the toilet and the floor around it. He cleaned it up like a good boy, but yuck! Is it really worth it to have him be caged if he’s going to make a mess? I don’t think so. Actually I told Lion I didn’t want to unlock him last night. He said he thought I had plans to play with him. I did. But I didn’t want to put the cage back on. This was before we decided he should stay wild because of the pee spraying problem. I don’t mind when the cage is on or off. I don’t even mind taking it off. It’s putting it on that annoys me. Every time he gets a new one I think it’ll be better. Either it’s a bitch to line up the cage with the base ring or the lock is difficult or I have to jam the head into something. I know he likes having the cage on (until he thinks about it and realizes he’s caged again) but I’m happier when he’s wild. Of course, I don’t share his bondage needs.

I finally agreed to take it off and I played with him. I’m not even sure I got him to the point of being convincingly hard. He was on his way and then plateaued again. I even thought about telling him I’d leave the cage off until he could get to the edge. I figured that could go one of two ways: either he’d see the cage as a reward for getting hard or he’d figure I’d given up on him. I didn’t know which way so why risk it? Plus, do I really want him trying to get hard so I have to wrestle with the cage again?

I think I’m as undecided about the cage as he is. He wants it on until it’s on and then he thinks better of the idea. I don’t care if it’s on or off; I just don’t want to have to put it on. We’re quite a pair.

One thing I am decidedly decided about is the fact that I’m not giving up on trying to get Lion to the edge. I don’t think he’s broken. I won’t give up until a doctor tells me there’s no hope of revival. Do not resuscitate. Until then, I’ll do what I can for him.