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In: Edging, Orgasm denial

Lion is a very horny boy and I have been relentless taking him oh, so close to the edge. I start out slowly, of course, but by the time I hit the third edge, I give him less time between each try. Last night I thought he was going to be a puddle before I was done. Just a quivering puddle of horny Lion. Then I put on my halo and say, so sweetly, “I’m only doing what you asked for.” The poor boy. Maybe I do have a sadistic streak running through me. [Lion — One can only hope]

Last night I was on the hunt for pre-cum. He did produce a little bit. I wish I knew how to increase the amount. Maybe it’s age. Sometimes he just produces more than other times. That’s true of his orgasms too. Sometimes there’s a big, tasty snack and other times not so much. I don’t think it has anything to do with how excited he is. If it did he would have had more last night for sure.

I also gave him his maintenance swats. A bunch of not-so-hard swats that still seemed to hurt quite a bit. His sore spot is still there. I’m not sure why he suddenly has it so I teased him about having a girlfriend who comes over just to whomp his butt while I’m at work. He said he’s always locked up so why would someone want to play with him. I pointed out that there are people out there who love to whomp butts. He should know that. They don’t necessarily want to provide an orgasm. And being locked up wouldn’t prevent him from giving them one. Of course, I trust him not to do that. It’s just fun to tease him about it.

This morning, Lion gave the weather report as “very horny with no chance of orgasm in the next ten days.” He also added that it’s a good thing he shaved or there might be a high Lion brush fire warning out too. I said he should go take a cold shower to keep the risk low. I’ll increase the risk later. I think we’re both wondering if his interest will wane in the next ten days. I’ll do my best to make sure that doesn’t happen.

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In: Edging, Female led relationship with discipline, Punishment, Spanking

It’s no surprise that Lion and I are on different pages. In this case, it’s a benefit. Yesterday he was feeling down, but I was doing ok. Last week I was feeling down, but he was not. Now this is all relative, of course. We’re both stressed about our finances. I’m only talking about how we’re handling it on a given day. Some days we function better than others. Lion was not functioning as well yesterday. With that knowledge, I decided to come up with the dinner idea and I returned a call from a creditor. We make a pretty good team.

By afternoon, Lion was in a better mood and reporting that he was horny. I love hearing the Lion weather report. He knew he had some punishment swats coming, but he also knew that he was in for an edging session. When I said I had a headache he told me I didn’t need to worry about the punishment. What a guy! I told him I could just give him twice as many swats the next day. He scrunched up his face. He hadn’t thought of that, but admitted I can do anything I want. Well, I wanted to give him his punishment swats last night. Big, nasty swats with a big nasty paddle. So that’s what I did. I have no idea how many swats, but they were definitely hard. And he squirmed so he got a few more. For some reason he had a very sore spot on one side. I know these were hard swats, but there was something extra sensitive going on there. Naturally, the effect did not last all that long.

About an hour later, I unlocked Mr. Weenie. I pulled out some Velcro from my bag of tricks. Lion made a face. I demonstrated how the little teeth could bite into Mr. Weenie. He said I didn’t have to do that. I agreed. So I picked up a clothes pin with the sandpaper-like coating and said we could use that instead. He didn’t like that idea either. Picky, picky. Not that he had much choice in the matter, but again, I agreed. Just the threat of those items was enough. Besides, Mr. Weenie was ready for action. After I edged him a few times, I put some lube on my hand. It’s very slippery silicon lube.

I can’t tell you how many times I edged Lion using the lube. He’d survived about three times before I even put the lube on. It had to be at least four more times and toward the end I wasn’t pausing for long between each go. As far as I could tell he never created any pre-cum but he was so slathered in lube I’m not really sure. I just know he was very frustrated. I decided to stop before I broke him or before I accidentally went too far. I didn’t want a ruined orgasm. That may come in handy at some point, but not last night.

When he had cleaned off the lube and calmed down, Lion asked if I wanted him to put the ring back on. I told him I would let him know when it was time. I need him to understand that he’ll be locked up when I want him to be locked up. If it gets late and it seems like I may have forgotten, then he can ask, but otherwise, I will decide when he puts the ring on. It’s my property and if I want it to be wild for an hour after the festivities then that’s what will happen. Lion needs to remember who’s in charge.

I do too.

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In: Edging, Orgasm denial

The other day I was debating whether to change things up and tell Lion when his scheduled orgasms are. For a long time I did, and then we went to scheduled dates but he was not privy to the information. I wondered if not knowing made him always think “tonight’s the night.” On the other hand, knowing the date might allow him to get into the mindset of waiting. In his post this morning he said he thinks he wants to know again. Why not? There’s no reason I can’t tell him. And, of course, no reason I can’t change my mind at a future date. So yesterday I changed his orgasm calendar date to August 18 and then immediately realized that August 15 (our anniversary) made much more sense.

What was Lion’s first response? “That’s so far away!” I knew he didn’t want to know. Yes, it is one of his longer waits. Yes, it would have been a few days longer had I kept the August 18 date. Yes, it will be difficult to make it. Yes, I know he can do it. And then within a few minutes he was telling me that he can do it. He also told me that I would probably give him a bonus orgasm before then. A few minutes later he said that if I hadn’t told him the scheduled date, he’s pretty sure I would have given him an orgasm last night or tonight. Well, he’s right that he’ll probably get a bonus orgasm before his scheduled date. But, since he said the other day that he would rather wait a while, I wasn’t planning on giving him an orgasm at least until next weekend. Depending on how he handles his knowledge of the scheduled date, I may wait the full amount. It’s up to him. And not in the he’s-calling-the-shots way, but in the how-much-does-he-whine way. I already told him if he’s on his best behavior and earns a reward, he might get an orgasm early. Of course, then he said there was no way for him to earn a reward. True. I’ll have to think of something.

In the meantime, he had a double dose of teasing yesterday. And he’s likely to be teased tonight, after his punishment swats. And every night for the foreseeable future. What more could a Lion want? (I know what more a Lion could want.)

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In: Edging, Male Chastity, Mrs Lion Comments, Sex

That has a few meanings for us lately. You all know about our financial problems and why don’t we just shut up about that already. I agree. I’m talking about edging Lion. He’s been a very horny boy lately and, rather than give him orgasms, I’ve decided to return to edging him. Not that I didn’t edge him before each orgasm, but I mean just edging him. Stopping just short of his promised land, so to speak.

He made a comment the other day that it’s possible to have too many orgasms. He wanted to wait. I thought I was being nice. I was taking pity on him because if nothing else seems to be going right, at least he could have an orgasm. He didn’t think I was not being nice. He just voiced an opinion. And I know he likes to wait sometimes, although he’s not a fan of an extended wait. I think 21 days is the longest he’s waited. That’s a mini wait for some caged males. Not even the blink of an eye. So far he’s been waiting five days and, if memory serves, he’s got quite a while to wait till his next scheduled orgasm. It certainly won’t happen tonight. But he will get edged.

Today is manscaping day. I’ll unlock him and get rid of all that extra fuzz cluttering up my play area. He’ll be hair free from belly button down and around back to his buns. While he’s wild, I usually play with him a bit. Sometimes it’s just a quick feel. Other times it’s a full edging. When he’s very horny, it takes very little touching to get Mr. Weenie to full attention. If the mood strikes me I can be very mean to my pet and ignore him altogether. Just let his erection fade into the sunset without even acknowledging it. I can do my trimming and hand him his ring to put on when he’s able to. But what fun would that be? Ignore him? No, no, no. I want to let him know I see his dilemma and I can help. Of course, by helping I know I’ll only make it worse. Because, you see, he said he wants to wait. Silly boy.

So if I do actually play with him (and why wouldn’t I?) while I manscape him, then I might even decide to edge him again tonight. Double whammy! Poor Lion. I can hear him grumbling already.