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I’m still not convinced about good boy orgasms. I can’t give Lion an orgasm any time I want? I have to wait until he’s done something (as of yet undetermined) good for him to get an orgasm? It seems to me that takes my power away. Isn’t that one step backwards?

Regardless, I decided to give it a shot. I’m all about experiments, after all. Last night was Lion’s first attaboy orgasm. When I started off, I was just going to edge him. I’d decided Lion’s next orgasm was Sunday. I figured we could start the good boy orgasms after that.

I think what changed my mind was that it was taking a long time to get Lion to the edge. His idea is that I should give him his reward orgasm whether he wants it or not. Clearly he was having trouble last night. What better time to give him his orgasm?

I know that seems like I’m dooming it failure from the start. I guess that’s not far off. I don’t like the idea of not having the freedom of giving him an orgasm when I want. In this case, I get what I want when I want it. Shouldn’t I get what I want? I am in charge, aren’t I?

That said, I really am willing to try it. I have no idea how it will work. I don’t know what actions will be a win for Lion. If I can punish him for annoying me, then I should be able to reward him for pleasing me. Anytime. I’ll have to keep my eye out for extra good behavior. It took me some time to get used to looking for bad behavior. I’m sure it’ll take some time to get used to looking for good behavior.

But I’m still a little concerned about not being able to just give him an orgasm for no reason at all.

[Lion — Mrs. Lion can give me a play spanking. She doesn’t have to wait for me to earn a punishment. If she can do that, then she can give me an orgasm “just because.”]

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In: Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm, Vibrator

The Magic Wand did its job last night. Lion was only sort of interested until I started using the vibrator. It didn’t take long to get him to the edge. It always amazes me how excited he gets.

Lion was panting each time I stopped him from coming. I won’t say he was desperate. He’d had an orgasm a few days before. He’s almost always looking for an orgasm so you can’t tell anything by that either. But he was certainly excited and more than willing to come. Who am I to deny him? Well, yes, I am the person who “should” be denying him. But I didn’t. I like seeing him that excited and listening to him as he realizes he’s going over the top. He makes some great noises.

Today is punishment day. Technically Lion should be punished for yelling at me last night. Our poor dog had another seizure and I was the one closest to the door so I ran for the emergency medicine we keep in the fridge. Before I had made it halfway down the hall, Lion was yelling at me to hurry. It was dark and I was fumbling for the light switch and I was sure I was moving faster than he could have. When I got back he said I took a long time to go ten feet. For the record, the house must be about 30 feet long and I was going from one end to the other. In the dark. Barefoot. With a cabinet on one side and a mound of empty boxes on the other. Plus a garbage can and kitchen table/chairs. So I yelled back but I knew he was just panicked because of the dog.

This morning when he reminded me of punishment day, I told him I wasn’t going to punish him for it. We were both worried and I know when he’s gone for the medicine it seems like he’s taking forever but I know he’s moving as fast as he can. When your kid or animal is sick, every second feels like an hour. The good news is that once we squirt the drug up her nose, she comes out of the seizure fairly quickly.

So Lion’s butt is safe for now.

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waxing man's chest
This isn’t us, but it’s exactly what we were doing yesterday.

My office has been invaded by a loud-mouthed coworker. There’s training going on and she was bounced off the computer she normally uses on Monday. Hurray! I dislike this woman under normal circumstances. Having her sitting next to me is excruciating. OK. Deep breath.

I waxed the rest of Lion yesterday. He’s completely bare (minus the random spots I missed) except for his arms and head. His back was surprisingly easy. For one thing, he doesn’t have much hair on his back but his shoulders are/were quite furry. I’m not sure if the ease of waxing was due to my getting used to doing it or the fact that his back and shoulders have tauter skin. I also had different wax. It was easier to apply and easier to remove. Whatever the case, Lion is smooth as a baby’s butt over 90% of his body. We’re both still trying to decide if we like it.

My idea for blindfolding Lion last night didn’t go as well as I’d hoped. Initially it did but then I guess the novelty wore off. When I questioned it he said a little oral sex never hurt anyone. (I’ve heard horror stories of women biting men, but why mention that last night?) So I decided to oblige him.

As I was sucking on him I was debating whether I should allow him to come or not. I said I wasn’t going to until he achieved beautiful penis status. He hadn’t. But I still want to keep the statistics somewhat even between oral orgasms and hand jobs. And he has been waiting for a week for a real orgasm. I figured he should get one. I didn’t figure it would take quite as long as it did. He really wasn’t that excited by the blindfold. But I overcame…and he did too.

Yesterday I told Lion I owed him a spanking. He didn’t thank me for his last punishment. I realized it the other day and kept forgetting to tell him. I didn’t want to do it last night because we’d already done waxing and I wanted to play with him. Tonight is punishment night anyway so it all works out. He just needs to remember to thank me or he’ll get more swats.

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In: Edging, Mrs Lion Comments, Orgasm

I was going to make him wait longer, but I gave in. Lion has probably figured out that nine times out of ten he gets an orgasm when I tease him orally. There have only been a few times that I’ve left him hanging.

For all the talk of being horny, Lion was a little difficult to get going. He’ll probably say I was too rough with him. When I happened to rub the tip he said I was hurting him. That’s why I decided to change positions. I knew that would do the trick.

I did edge him quite a few times before I decided to keep going. I’m not sure if Lion was sure each time would be “the one”. Maybe he thought he’d have to wait. We’ve talked about his wait times being different when he’s caged versus being wild. To my knowledge, he never kept track of specific dates when he was caged so we can’t go back and extrapolate that information. I do know that this was a longer wait than he’s had for a while. I don’t know if that means anything or not.

Lion had more creamy goodness last night than he’s had in a long time. Was it the wait? Was it the oral attention? Was it the number of times I edged him? Was it the intensity? I don’t know. I don’t think Lion does either. I think it’s just a crap shoot.